Hey you guys my name is Erica Mena . Yes Erica Mena, the Erica Mena from Love and Hip Hop . Im 25 Years old and i have a 5 1/2 year old son and I'm bisexual.My life seems so perfect on the show . but outside of the show my life is a living hell . Im in a very abusive relationship , i just cant take anymore of the beatings i get for no damn reason . after I hit rock bottom , I meet the love of my life , my wife , and the mother of my children..... Cyn Santana .