Family

What is a family? "It is a group of one or more parents and their children living together as a unit. It have all the descendants of a common ancestor. Also designed to be suitable for children as well as adults." This are some sentences that will show up if you will search the word "FAMILY" in the internet. However if you really think of it, you may ask these questions; How about the single parents? What if there is a mother and a father but they are not living together? How about the LGBTQ+ people to create their own kids families? Are kids that have no parents does not have a family? Are couples with no children not a family? With all these questions you may ask now "So what really is a family?" A family can be different in peoples own perspective, but for me FAMILY are people that loves you truly, the ones you trust the most, and the one who's willing to sacrifice for you. They may be not by blood and you may have many families like your friends, school family, work family, etc. Anyone can be a part of a family.

What are some kinda of families? Good thing there are answers to that question.

First come first serve;
This is the family that are prioritizing the first child. Usually this happens to the families in provinces because they believe that the first child will be the first one that will help them soon even if it is not true. Mostly the first child is the favorite one among all their siblings. They are the ons who gets what they want and they are the ones who's being supported the most in the family. O kaya sa tagalog ay, sila yung mga sunod sa luho. But they are the once who are most pressured by the family because they stand as the second parent of his or her siblings. If you have a family like this you can fight for your right in a polite way or just accept and do your best and always remember that you are not in competition even if some people compare you.

Money is not everything;
These are the families that are not that rich but bonds a lot and are very hand on. These are the families that knows each other very well, very understanding, and very loving despite their level in the society. If your family is like this then you are very blessed in-terms of family support.

Richy far;
These are the families that are very rich but the parents are not always available for their children and usually their kids are forced to be a role model to others because of their standard in the society or in other word perfectionist. These families may be rich but remember that money cant buy everything. If your family is like this you are fortunate in terms of financial support.

A+;
This are the families that are financially stable and balance the bonding time with the work time. This is the family that pulls each other up and supports each other equally. The members of these families are fortunate and usually have a humble attitude.

Remember despite all the down parts of your family love them and treat them the way you want them to do yours. Take care of them and understand them when they are not so good sometimes. Respect them even if they seem to not understand you. And I believe that no one is born bad, it is just their experiences in life that made them like that and everyone have a chance to be a better version of themselves. Life may challenging but your challenges and struggles are the once that makes you stronger. It is either you learn or you win.