When you click on a movie your first look at it is the cover and title the first impression, you'll glance at it and see if it interests you and if it does then you'll go a little deeper, you read the description, what it's about, the overall look and just one viewpoint of that movie. Finally the trailer. This is the final breaking point if you're going to like it or not. When you watch a trailer it will show you the happy or sad beginning to it. Then it goes into the life of the main person. This will show you what it's like in their life and the people in it. You will see some sad and happy parts, and even maybe a really exciting part. But you will never see the breakdown or pure joy in the trailer. Now if you decide you like it then you'll watch the movie and have many emotions to it, some sad, some happy, and some pure joy.
When you think about it, that routine that simple thing that we all do as humans is not a huge task. We see something at first get drawn to it and if it is interesting enough we go deeper. But when we look at a cover or title to a movie and don't get drawn to it, we move on and don't look back. Now have this same simple routine in mind that we all do to pick out a movie for a friday night and place it into the game of life. We do the same routine to pick out the people in our life. And maybe it will guide us to pure joy, happiness and excitement. But it might just guide us to the breakdowns, sadness and fear. I'm not saying it's one or the other, there is always that mixture of both.
But if we see a cover and don't like we walk away right. But when you just glance at the cover and title and walk away you don't read the description and don't go deeper. So you'll never know if you would have had joy watching that movie. Now look at this same mind set in life. It's the same just instead of a movie it's another person's life and the description is you talking to them. Finally the breaking point is the tailor of that person's life and you start to see the joy, happiness and some sad parts. But when you watch the whole movie you are a part of that person's life and you see all the crazy, all the pure joy, and are there for the breakdowns and more. And to me that is true friendship watching and being a part of the whole movie.
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RandomThis is just my point of view on how we make friendships and the way I see the world.