Synopsis
To survive a breakup, you must be generous and try to forget the past.
Why would you want the negative emotions to continue with no end
in sight and stuck in your mind, affecting you in your everyday life
functions? If you still have feelings towards your ex, forgive him/her
totally; forgiveness is the greatest love act of all.
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Do not blame anyone for everything. A breakup occurs when there are
problems caused by both parties. Stop the thoughts that your ex is the
one with all faults. Do not blame yourself for what you have done
either and keep from regretting things.
Do not question yourself, neither what you should have actually done
at that time. The relationship is over now, so why continue to figure
out what to do to curb the problems, especially if there is no chance to
reconcile. At this moment, you should focus on how to get rid of the
heartbreak and not sticking with it.
Do not let yourself look backwards. Stop reminding yourself about the
failures in the relationship, including checking back all the text
messages and emails from your ex in the past. Do not allow all this to
be the stumbling block that blocks you from thinking for yourself.
Remember the good, ditch the bad. Remember the good memories
that both of you shared together; but avoid reflecting back the bad
times and pressures, as this will make you feel less confident to start a
new relationship.
Focus on the future. Whatever you experienced in this relationship,
take it as experiences that brings you to a whole new level of
examining yourself and moving towards a better future. It is never a
good thing to reflect on all the problems faced in the relationship, but when you do, make sure you know how to find ways to improve
yourself for the better.
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