Hi! How are you today? Have you eaten? How was your day?
Aside from my family, I treasure people whom I have this kinda nice, free, exciting, tranquil feeling. There will be days that you'll never agrees onto something, there'll be (lots of) arguments, contradictions on some topics, issues that one day is not enough to reason out or both ideas to consider but your relationship with them is important so you won't do stupid things or childish decisions to make the situation worse, you won't need to post something unnecessary regarding your issue/s with your friends or rather stay offline until you feel better, cleansed your mind, self-reflect and reach out to them when you're all ready to hear and comprehend.
Friends who listens, tells you what you needed to hear and understand, not forcing you to do things (considerate of your feelings, respects your decisions), watches over you, never gets tired of reminding you to never get reckless or cautious of your behaviour (there're lots of push-overs in particular out there, beware), to be level-headed (even if the situation is too difficult or the person is arduous).
A friend is the one who backs you up when the condition backfires you or unfavorable on your side, they'll support you in anyway they can (or even cannot but still takes actions in whatever they can or think that'll do and hoping it'll work) shares insights, lays out the pro's and con's if it's ok with you or can you pull it off because it's not your comfort (zone). A friend who sees the best in you and participates on what you do, spots the worst in you while instead of judging you or criticizing you he/she will remind you that every single person has their own flaws, accepting it and working on it on how to become better or to fight 'em if it's not their better form/self.
A friend that even if they are far away from each other they can find ways to catch up and communicate. They are not ok, their first day in the office is catastrophic, their relationship with their partners are beginning to crumble, they are doleful and nothing can make them smile, they are broken. You can still light up their mood, let 'em rant over their issues, what or who makes their heart breaks, everything, anything that'll lighten up their baggages. You are hoping that once they've opened-up and speak-ill of their demanding and huffy bosses they'll begin to laugh 'em all out or make them smile even for a little.
If you meet even just one or two of them, never let them go. They are precious individuals that's hard to see or bumped into. Take care of them and make them feel appreciated and well-respected to admire.
After all, at the end of the day love is all the same.
