an open letter for the girl who thinks she was left behind

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With how fast-paced the dating process happens in the peak of online dating apps, you think that your preference of old school kind of encounters was not really that appropriate anymore, how you value love and relationship seems to be out of reach and is nowhere to be tracked. No pressure. You have standards, I get it, and we all set standards for a relationship. Others might really just of proportioned on thinking that online matches might be the real thing, well lucky for them to work those out. But you don't have to fool yourself of wanting what you aren't, just because you felt like your wasting your time, hardly looking for that perfect match and the moment you wished.

Well, you're not. You have your whole life to be taken. Why waste the time doubting and worrying? That right time would come at the moment you felt that it's right. Let me remind you that love happens in all forms, but in some places, it just doesn't work well when it's too forced and desperately achieved.

For what it's worth, there are much more things to life than living a life in a box of being a hopeless romantic. Go better yourself. Set goals. Discover yourself more. Find ways to create your own happiness, maybe finding a new hobby or whatever. The point is you have your whole life to be taken, don't waste it on the things you shouldn't be rushing.

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