My 9 year brother who I haven't seen in 7 years has finally come for Christmas with my dad. I have 4 siblings on his side and I'm the only female. My dad has gotten over excited about it and had obviously favoured him. I'm a teenage girl who has her girl products and would like space every now and then in her room. I have my own room and he shares one with my two brothers 3 years and 2 ever since he got here he hasn't slept in his bed only mine I usually end up on the couch or floor. When I tell him to get out he complains on being scared about the boys waking him up. Which obviously is gonna piss me off. He also slapped my ass and stuck his toes up there multiple times and doesn't stop. He complains about most of his things like his own blanket and takes mine and my dad let's him to this he even complained in the car while sitting next to my brothers and complained if I could sit there cause he didn't feel comfortable. Me and my stepmother have obviously been rubbed the wrong way due to his behavior mostly because he plays video games instead of eat. My dad tells me that he only misses me and that he is my brother so he can do these things. I'm constantly ignored or made fun off with them too my dad even made a joke about how he wanted a boy but micheal payed up for that one day something happened which is where I got fed up with my dad and micheal the night before I had texted my mother about something "I'm watching Greys in the living room micheal comes out because he NEEDS to be everywhere I go dad goes "turn that off" because you know micheal is 9 I get up spend half an hour trying to get the Netflix on the xbox IN MY ROOM and then not even 5 minutes into me getting comfy with my pop and nail polish and Greys guess what happens they kick me out to the living room to play video games" that night I tried to sleep but my brother had taken the whole bed a snored. So I kept thinking, the next morning obviously pissed off I woke up on the couch and went up to my dad and said "look I say this with all the love and respect for both and and my brother but I'm a teenage girl I need my own space I'm constantly waking up on the floor or switching to the couch. He is 9 years old it's been 4 days he should be able to sleep in his own bed. Him missing me excuse isn't useful anymore because he sure didn't miss me when I said I was gonna sleep on the couch. I get he does miss me but it doesn't give him or you to dismiss the way I feel about my body and my space. I was gonna keep it calm til yesterday I do feel left out I am upset just because you haven't seen micheal all the time doesn't mean you can dismiss your other kids. Take him to the store like you did me alone go out to lunch alone but when you are at home it's everyone of us not just him cause it kinda hurts when you only ask him if he wants a drink and my stepmom needs to remind you about me or me seeing pictures at the zoo where you made it literally look like in the 100 pictures you took that you had one kid and I was the kid you tried to snap out of The picture and there was only one with me actually in it. Or being told that micheal was such a better baby than me. It may only be fun and jokes to you but I'm human and it hurts.
