A PART OF YOUTH.
They are the sections of group who are very sensitive and always at the gun point.
These period of time in any generation, are full of curiosity and eager to poke nose every where. They have to hear that they have grown up to understand the situation and then react. Same time to be quite as they are still in their childhood. Haaa haaa ! Such a borderline.
We as elders should be more careful while dealing with them. As we have gone through the same situation, could feel their personal quirk. But we fail in analysis them.
Coming and going emotions can be the first step in forming a new platform. Nowadays, generation next are more advance in all aspects of life. Thanks to our internet-based knowledge. They have increased their horizon but taken away their innocent views.
Not a single child is pure ,they are keen towards the double meaning statements. They are inclined towards the relationships with knowing that reality of the situations. If no relationships, no standards. If they have no bfs or gfs then no respect in their own circle. Drinking, smoking, vulgarity are common. They feel nothing wrong. Elders can't afford to take a stand. Where are we going.......???
Where are those innocent teens learning to explore, excel themselves in the various fields of life.??? I am in a shocking 😳 and searching them.
In small towns , young girls are more inclined towards the freedom that boys are used to.. . Instead of studying and finding the ways to create their own position in the society. They are brought up as in to be married as one goal of life.so waiting for groom has one merry making, hidden secrets till parents marry off .. such young girls.I have few teen girls Drinking and smoking and thrilling on vulgar 🎶 🎵 music.That is the fact of life. Disgusting...when you are getting opportunity then spoiling..... after some years ,same little ones will regret for the mistakes done by them .But today I can only see and keep my mouth shut as no one is going to listen me.
They are grown up, will be the best answers.
On the hand, they are weak in emotions and sentiments. They are clay which can be moulded in various shapes . They have to handle with care. They need to be believed and given in by us.
They are likely to make mistakes. But if they fall ,elders should be there to hold them and make them realize that mistakes which can be
Overcome in the future. Instead of beating , shouting at them ,try to understand the reason behind the mistakes before it becomes a crime.
They are so scared that they hide things and repeatedly may land in a havoc situation. Elders should be friends where they can share things, curiosity and helped at every point of time. They will learn to handle themselves and be a stable future.
Every person has his or her own visions. One instance, one of the students, her name was vritika studying in ninth class.. she was called for extra help by a male teacher in the evening. After few days, she hesitated to go for her tuition. Parents couldn't understand and scolded her. The teacher compelled her .
She used to scared and looked gloomy every time. One of her best friend came to know about her situation and she had the courage to bring out the matter in light. But vritika had to leave the town for ever before anything else could be done.
Is that her mistake??? No one could take her in faith. But because being a girl ,maybe humiliating society, she was quite. That maybe chocked inside her mind and soul . Same where in the future, it will harm her mentally.
Parents of girls should be more careful and friendly just to avoid any disaster management.
In western countries, laws are strict and youths are supported for any injustice done to them.
But in the countries like India, girls are victims and blamed unnecessarily for everything. Being a girl is a biggest crime .
A five year child who is not aware of her surroundings and people around. She is being abused physically but her parents unaware. They beat the girl who is innocent instead of taking right actions against the crime. So think about that girl brought up in what situation and background. Will she have faith in her parents and their worldwide.
What about her mental trauma??
Any answers..
Boys are given too much freedom. They spoil themselves in so called hi fi or advance society. They get freedom to do anything they want.. . They can bully anyone including their own parents. I am talking about the some parts of youngsters not all
We have to sit together to find various ways to implement on the tough situations infront of our youngsters specific teenagers.
One young guy ,hardly know anything about the education, his own future but good in playing games with the emotions and sentiments even providing character certificate to others. To sleep with a girl ,made so many tantrums and blamed the person who really cared for him.
He made such a fuss about the person like me without giving a second chance for his actions. Elders supported him. Not a spoiled brat. ?? We have double standards. Some families are too open up to go any extent and creat a wrong impression of being standard in the society.
Yes you can create your own scene but not a cost of giving a character certificate to others.
Instead of building up the career, they are busy in extraordinary activities and ruining the concept of having dignity and faithful families. Each member of a family play games with each other. So trust issue will be always there in such a family and surrounding.
On the other side, a sixteen year old girl is being married off to a thirty year man. Is it not a crime. But parents are not well educated to think about it and it's consequences. The girl not aware about the seriousness of a marriage. She is still too young to be a mother and tale care of household chores. Her own identity or dreams are in vain. The day ,she matures and realize her own regrets ,it will be too late to mend her childhood innocent views. I want to help such girls but how ......
They have Locked up their gate for any advices.
I am very sorry and depressed. So sat to express my feelings here on the paper.
I will tell a instance, a girl living in the same building. Young girl with a different thoughts and views. I was always for her in my best ways. I cared and valued her more than her own mother. I had a great respect for her being a different person who can excel herself in the world. But just for a boy ,to have him ,within one night, her priority changed. So many big liar. Telling something and did something..... . Great efforts. Totally ignorance. Supported by her own mother to capture the situation or requirements. If you can get a chance to prove yourself then probably prove that by your talents and abilities. But in our Indian middle class society, getting a guy is so difficult that they can go to any extend to capture and use the feelings and sentiments of anyone. She has lost her own identity and respect. Whatever happens, that lost identity will never come back. But she has no regrets for her deeds .or maybe as a mother my and I felt my own mother and blamed and they slapped me by locking the gate forever. So where are the values of life for such things. We Indians are very accent to western cultures by just opening up clothes anywhere anytime but we lost our morals and dignity. People of western countries or any countries respect the morals and dignified culture. That girl is fine ,enjoying the best but that agony and pain given by her ,couldn't be rectified. Such are our youngsters, they ruin your kind cooperation under their feet without any doubt.
The innocent, honest and simple person gets hurt and go through the pains. But no response.
Many more things are to discuss. If you have any other option or questions, please let me know.
I have to say other positive attitude also.
Youngsters are full of energy, innovative 💡. They create electronic city so fast that we are left behind. At very tender age, these youngsters build up a new story and make us proud. New scientist at 14 or 16 ,crossing the new horizon and making their parents proud .
Girls are setting new goals for themselves, showing that they are the best .
In every competitions, girls are coming up with new dimensions. I love to see them exploring and exploring new world. I feel at ease for them as a woman, my vision, dreams were locked down due hypocrisy of average middle class family. Somewhere I feel that I am in immense ocean brimming my smiles and satisfaction. What I lacked in achieving ,thees girls are.... I do regret for not having such courage to go beyond the limits to access the best answers for myself.
