the philosophy of love

WHAT IS LOVE?

Love, the one that still for many is the strongest feeling there is and the one that leads people to do a lot of crazy things for it

Throughout history there are many ideas about love, about that natural attraction that one human being has for another. In my case, I can only give my opinion based on experiences I have seen and not lived, since I have always been rejected.

According to scientists, love is just a chemical state that our body feels to seek mating, a thought that is perfectly accepted by many people.

But really, what is that feeling that leads us to be aware of a person day and night to not rest until we are happy?

Well, in my opinion, love is a genuine affection for a person that goes beyond sexuality or interest.

Real love is one that is capable of driving us to do the impossible for a person

Real love is the one we feel from our beating heart to our imaginative brain that leads us to create a thousand and one fantasies with those people

Love is by far the last genuine feeling that society has left and although it may not seem like it, it is still alive in each one of us.

It is the last trait that makes us grow as people and makes us want to change for the better.

It is our decision as a species to think if we take care of it or let it lose that last mental physical state that makes us still have consciousness.

For me, love is the purest of the feelings that human beings have and although it is difficult to admit it, it is the last one that remains in our society as a trace of humanity.

That is why when we love we must both love and be loved if we do not feel loved in a relationship it is not good

It is necessary to learn to differentiate between love and obsession

The former is capable of letting people go if it makes them happy.

While the second makes us want those people for ourselves regardless of whether they are happy or not.

Sadly, love has been dilated by ourselves, going from sincere love to simply love for convenience, reaching to this day false love and a fatal error.

Confusing love for passion since true love, the genuine love that we can feel for a person must be completely exempt from passion, desire and lust since they are two very different things

Because if love should be based only on passion and satisfaction, then how different does that make us from animals that only seek to mate?

Animals only live by instinct and that is why we are different from them or well before since the concept of love was digressing and now most relationships are only based on desire as if we were going back to the time when we were animals guided by multiplication instincts

Now making this clear let's move on to the important thing

Love must be the giving of your heart completely to the other person and in return you must receive the same because if you give your heart to that person but you do not receive the same no matter how much it hurts you must get away from that person who does not value you

The most important thing before loving is to love yourself

First it is necessary that you understand that before everything you must love yourself and put yourself above all others once you understand that you must move on to the following

Understand your place in your relationship, which should be central for your partner and for you

If you can understand this you can start something serious

Each person must develop the ability to understand when a relationship is serious and when it is just a game.

You should never give your heart completely to a person you know little or nothing about

Before taking that great leap from the feeling of attraction to love, you must be aware that it is one and the other since the attraction is based more on a whim of "having" instead love seeks and must always seek the "give"

Another very important thing before thinking about loving should be to forget and overcome, since these two qualities are necessary in life so that you can feel good about yourself in case things do not go well.

This learning is difficult but not impossible in my personal case I learned to forget and overcome thanks to all the times I was rejected or had a false friendship and for convenience

It is always important to prepare for the worst in a relationship so if a betrayal comes, you will be prepared to forget to overcome and if necessary forgive.

And the most important thing you should never feel bad about a breakup, no matter how much it hurts, sitting down to get depressed over a breakup is the dumbest thing you can do if he didn't love you he didn't love you forget it

When you break up with someone, the most important thing is to tell yourself "it wasn't my fault, I did everything for our relationship and if he broke up with me, it was because it wasn't for me, someone will come who loves me for who I am and truly values ​​me" every night until you move on

The human is not perfect, that is why he is wrong and we can only improve by learning from him.

You are mistakes and the harder the blow the bigger the learning

I know it's hard but if we are able to love and hate we can also be able to forget and move forward no matter how much it hurts

But in reality, to better understand love and a relationship, whatever the case may be, it is necessary to divide it into various types, like everything else, in my case I identify 4 types of relationships

1. Little serious relationships, for fun or on a whim

2. Complicated relationships or better half

3. Complementary relationships or ying yang

4. Soulmate Relationships

Identifying these four allows us to realize the advantages and disadvantages of each one as well as if that is the one we want in our lives.

Each of these types will be explored in upcoming chapters so stay tuned!

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