Life, as bitchy as it may be, comes with purpose and enjoyment actually. Of course, the manual doesn't come with the package unfortunately so we're bound to make mistakes whilst living it out, but I heard somewhere that mistakes make us HUMAN, so it's not too much of a catastrophe if you didn't win an award, or didn't get to impress your dream girl (If any of you are wondering, yes, I am speaking from my own painful experiences).
Of course, I'm not one to talk like some self-righteous guru know-it-all (honestly, I'm just stealing some stuff from the people I know who are (shout out to Uncle Iroh and Prof. Dumbledore)), I just say what I think, and I think too many people get hung up on mistakes sometimes. we learn from what passes so that we can do better for what comes in the future
we don't know what's held for us in the future, but we know that if there's something we don't want to repeat from the past, we make sure our present is for our betterment. Why do we even have time to think of such thoughts when we haven't lived HALF of our lives yet? let's just live in a way we can be proud of and stand tall. I may sound self-righteous but I just want to write this and have whoever needs to read it, read it. work never runs out but if life was all work what the hell would this world be? (I recommend you, the reader listen to MODUS by Joji)
we're given life not to just eventually die as we wait around or just sit down and feel empty about shit, we need to live it out, finding a way to do that may have its different shapes, but I think it can happen. we're different but the same (I got that from Neil DeGrasse Tyson in his interview on hot ones) I mean, hundreds of people, STRANGERS no less, ALL OVER THE WORLD went to help 13 boys in a cave, I'm sure one or a few people can help each other collectively get through some shit. if we don't, who will?
(I feel like there's more I can and should write, but there can be more times for it, I've got my entire life to, after all)