the philosophy of love

HOW TO GET TO THE TOTAL COLD

Although what I have written is basically based on my perception of love on a very philosophical level, I think that to make this complete it is necessary to talk about one of the most interesting ways of living, I am speaking neither more nor less than the cold and inexpressive way that present the people

Mainly when we talk about cold and inexpressive people, we talk about our parents or grandparents because, as we will discover later in our lives, it is not easy and over time we become a cold and inexpressive reflection of our parents.

But how did they get to that and as people like us who are just beginning to live can we get to that, well, in this case I will give you several tips for those who want to close their hearts and enclose all feelings behind a wall so high and so cold that it overcomes until game of thrones

Well, well, to begin with, I must take into account that many people do not develop their coldness but rather inherit it, as in my case, I come from hard people, inexpressive and colder than the polar poles.

This happens when one person in a family suffers a hard life and trying to harden their descendants generally treats them harshly and demanding with very little attention, all this until eventually those children become other cold ones, you will have no feelings and these at their Maybe do the same with your children and so on until you consolidate a dynasty without feelings apart from hatred, anger or greed

A great advantage of being cold is that you do not have to worry about love or others with time only you matter and only you without exception you do not pay attention to the world no matter how much a cold person attacks you do not give in or give up

But the real question is how to get to that point at an early age because I am going to give you some tips to achieve it

1. Do not trust everyone, after all, they are all vipers waiting to bite you, so if you do not trust others, they never manage to bite you

2. Never let your guard down when someone approaches you, just keep quiet, ignore them, and go about your business.

3. keep quiet try not to talk too much and over time it will cease to be necessary for you also try not to show anything with your facial expressions keep a frown or simply a face of total concentration

4. think about all the possibilities this is very important when thinking about being cold you should think about the worst when someone approaches you along with anyone who is already close to you think that person is only looking for the moment to take advantage of your innocence

5. Concentrate on other things and don't think too much about others. This is very important because if you concentrate on other things, things like studying itself and on your goals, you will be able to see others as simple obstacles in your path. that with time it will not be difficult for you to be indifferent to their problems or criticism, the other people around you will be nothing more than simple entities that do not affect you at all

6. never forget the bad things that have been done to you use them as a point of reflection every time another person approaches you

7. Always think ahead with this you will understand that people come and go but in the end they leave with this and a thought of always being ready for any eventuality such as betrayal will let you leave any bond with ease until everyone is known without importance and you are ready to fight any possible fight and face any difficulty

By following these simple 7 tips, very often you will be able to create a cold wall in your heart and your feelings until everything you show is only superficial, since once the walls are up, everything you show as happiness or affection for others will only be false feelings that everyone believes genuine but that in the end you will not believe and you will not feel

Over time, life turns you like this, sooner or later you will end up being a cold copy like your parents or grandparents like me, although not wanting to offend, coldness is more common in right-wing conservative families since these families do not accept anything different, they only want to create copies of themselves without question or without differences

In my personal case, everything is combined in a perfect mixture that, to tell the truth, makes me cold as someone who shows nothing more than a frown and the few feelings that manage to come out I capture in my works as a dream of a love in which I no longer I think and about I think

But let's go to the beginning, it all starts at school where I suffered bullying 8 of my 9 years of study without mentioning that all this is complemented by fake people who were only looking for my intelligence since I usually occupy the first place in the grades without mentioning that I constantly suffered rejection by all the people with whom I opened up and came to love as more than friends and if we add to that my social rejection by my colleagues

more than me of In case I come from a conservative and very cold family, little by little, the feelings I felt faded at night when I could let off steam crying in silence so as not to be considered effeminate by my father or my sister, who continued with the bullying at home.

Over time I became a pile of cold ice creating defensive walls with everyone around me and distrusting everyone while I carefully observe their weaknesses ready to give a comment that greatly damages that person that is the story of how I ended up being a big ice cube which in turn has an imagination and great inspiration and ideas to write

But it's not all bad, I'm a notable figure in my school as part of the intellectual elite, not to mention I'm doing very well and I have a bright future.

I only leave this here as a written confession of how I became what I am and I leave these ideas so that those who want to close themselves off from the world can do so

Although if they can, they don't, I love my loneliness caused by myself, but others may not be capable, so I want them to know that I do not regret anything, but the coldness that one reaches over time is not for everyone, so that by taking these tips to stop feeling something for someone other than yourself, it should be one of your last options to solve your problems, traumas or pains

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