The wait

The differences

I always wondered how the opposites suit each other, and that too the best!

Not just one habit difference but different family backgrounds hence differed upbringing and leading to variant traditions, ethics, morals and nature.

If one is a listener, then the other just can't stop speaking;

if one has a crooked smile and yet audacity  smiles the whole day the other one has got to have a smile to wait years for
if one loves old school music another one might be an adventurous soul. That's "The Macy theory"
That if a person enjoys party songs at any hour of the year, he or she is ought to be an adventurous person too.

I could go on listing these contrasts and at the same time list so many couples that just can't be any more happy no matter these unimaginable differences. Just like in a puzzle, one piece has to have a cleft and the other just exactly to fit into and many such differences then turn out to make a beautiful scenery, a satisfactory feel, and a beautiful sight.

While I was wondering about this thought, it strikes me that he and I also fall into the opposite category. And you know, it's never just thought and we stop at it, it's a chain of thoughts, one leading to another & so did I go on thinking of our differences, for instance, if I speak less and also find those unspoken silent periods weird when we are at least sitting on the same table, he's there to say, "I always have a topic" which makes me feel assured of the wait "

One must mention the difference between us is him being busy in his college life, a social person, an extrovert, and more actions than planning, it's likely because campus gives you a lot of opportunities, and mine, is not so busy, just a handful friend, not completely and introvert because I do owe the guts to talk to a stranger if I needed or be it public speaking (in my school time, I participated in a lot of elocution competitions)so I'm pretty much balanced in btw; not so going on the outside but yes, definitely a lot more going, talking, getting to know myself, improving everything but all on the inside. I mentioned this difference specifically because on my part I am the one who gets more time as I said I'm not that busy (i have taken a gap year due to some reasons) and thank God to give me the right idea to use that more time. So, the right idea was to "think, examine and pen down my thoughts", my past & me as a person from an observer perspective, deep enough to realize what were my mistakes, and how I can improve myself so that I didn't repeat any of those mistakes and what were the things which were just not in my control and there was no need to curse myself for every mistake, some things are meant to just let go.

And when I started to think and examine my behavior with others over, the past few years, I somehow could catch a pattern and thus leading me to realize that I was loyal to this one idiot all this while unknowingly.
To be continued...

~I hope you enjoyed this part of 'the wait' chapter. I have tried my best to stick to my words of keeping the story as realistic as possible(as the tag reads non-fiction)

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