If you're searching for the right person na makakasama mo for life, that will be the person that you'll choose each time and everytime, because the right person is the person you always choose each and everytime in every situations, and worthy to be chosen by, di ka makakakita ng taong hindi napapagod, all of us are getting tired day by day because we are fighting, but the important is we get tired and exhausted pero sayo padin willing magpahinga, one of the secret of having a long term relationship, not just a long term, it's lifetime, na you have to see that person as your forever, hindi maiiwasan ang ang minsanang pagpili ng paglisan dahil sa pagod sa matagal na paglaban, pero hindi ito pedeng wakasan o tuldukan.
Most couples now days they can't handle their both emotions, they can't handle their partners pagdating sa situation na hinanghina na, that's why they made a decision to set apart, swerte ka kung may taong kayang ihandle ka both emotionally and physically, sabi nila not all battles are worth fighting for pero swerte ka kung sa paningin ng partner mo is sobrang worthy mo para ilaban, maraming tao naghahanap ng partner na kaya silang ilaban, kung nasa iyo na yung hinihiling ng iba, wag mo na pakawalan, kung may mga bagay kayo na hindi magawa dahil malayo kayo sa isa't isa, you need to think that everything will be stable in time, isipin mo yung mga bagay na di niyo magawa ngayon is magagawa niyo yan pagkinaya niyo lahat ng hardships.
Men will do their best to make you feel that you're valuable but if you let them feel you have no interest in them, they will immediately lost their confidence, they look down on themselves men's feelings are valid and should not be invalidated. Maaaring may times na masisira mo siya kahit gaano mo pa siya pakaingatan, pero lagi mong tatandaan na walang ibang magaayos or no one can fix him/her bukod sayo, masasaktan natin pero tayo din ang bubuo, all problems in a relationship should be fix by couples, walang ibang makakalutas niyan kung hindi kayong dalawa lang, so instead of ignoring each other, talk about it, sabi nga ni geo, bakit kailangan pang patagalin ang problema kung sa huli masusulusyunan din naman? bakit kailangan palipasin pa ng isang gabi na mabigat kung maaari namang pagusapan agad? so we need to choose to fix rather than to endure it kahit hindi okay, you're both feelings are need to be valid and to be kept.
Kailangan niyo isalba ang isa't isa, kasi habang nabubuhay tayo sa mundong ito, paulit ulit tayong mapapagod, paulit ulit tayong maddrain, kaya it is important that you have a partner na masasandalan mo, who can lift you up, motivates you at hindi yung when you're down, sasabayan ka nila, that's why we have a partner that they can push or motivate us in times na walang wala tayo, relationship are not always happy, wealthy, easy and perfect, lalabas ang tunay na pagmamahal pagsinasalba niyo ang isa't isa mga oras na hirap na hirap na, that's why there are couples na nagbbreak because they're not ready about these things, they think that relationship is always happy, nakakakilig, pero pagdumating yung hardships, they can't hold into it, doon mo mas hahanapin at matatagpuan yung totoong pagmamahal. Updating is essential, communication is the most important thing na hindi maaaring mawala, communication is the key, specially when you are in an LDR relationship, always remember that love will always find ways.
Mahirap nga naman talaga when you're in a relationship, because hindi ka lang naman nakafocus sa iisang bagay, maybe you're focusing on studies, family, etc then dagdag mo pa yung rs, sobrang draining non hindi mo maitatanggi, that's why when you are entering on a relationship, may problema kayo then sabay sa studies mo, madaming dapat gawin sa bahay habang mabigat yung puso mo, may mga times na ganyan talaga na sobrang draining kaya dapat ready ka, dapat bago mo pasukin is alam mo'na na dapat "maging matatag ako kasi pinili ko siya" "Dapat maging malakas ako despite all problems and challenges between studies and being in a relationship" bago mo pasukin ang relationship kailan maging open ka sa ganto, because maraming nagfafail dahil they're not ready about these problems, sobrang draining that's why they can't handle it, di nila kaya magfocus sa maraming bagay they just need to focus in one, dapat advance ka about these things na you have to improve yourself, be matured enough, should learn more, dahil once na di mo kaya ihandle, marerealize mo na sana hindi mo nalang sinimulan, but when you hold into it, marami kang matututunan about being patient, priorities, being strong despite all challenges, and as in a relationship titingnan niyo nalang sa likod lahat ng mga problema na nilagpasan niyo at tatawanan niyo nalang lahat ng iyon, then suddenly realized na "Anlayo na pala natin" being strong is one of the most important thing na if you're truly love that person, no problems can take you both down, no challenges that you can't execute because naghahatakan kayo pataas.
