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One very important thing
about love: love is not
worth searching for; love
solves none of your
problems, love does not
lift you up where you
belong, and love is not all
you need.
People who look for love
to fill a longing for
fulfillment, happiness,
purpose, confidence,
direction, or satisfaction
will never find any of that,
because you will fall in
love with a human being,
and every single human
being on this planet is
exactly that: human.
Humans are self-serving,
stubborn, short-sighted,
and flawed in an infinite
number of combinations.
Love allows a person to
burrow into your heart,
consume your mind, and
reroute your life. What do
you think will happen,
happily ever after?
When you start looking at
love as a goal, as a prize,
as a trophy, as a bandage,
as a roadmap, or as
anything else but a
decision to give
irreplaceable parts of
yourself to someone else,
then you will utterly fuck
yourself up because the
reality of compromise,
fighting, and endings
which you conveniently
disregarded will destroy
you. What people don't
realize is that love is not
safety, it's danger; you
don't take control, you
take a chance. You're
putting your trust in the
hands of a very human
person, and that person is
never the hero you've
built him or her up to be.
Never.
People are never perfect,
but their moments of
selfishness and greed are
always tempered by
moments of generosity,
caring, and unbelievable
goodness. Knowing this
will keep you grounded,
realistic, and open-minded
to the fact that love can
last a lifetime or end
tomorrow, that people
change for better or for
worse, and that you are
one of those people.
Love is meant to be
discovered, not hunted
down. It's meant to be
savored, and not craved
for. All the expectations
and music videos and
chick lit and happy endings
you've heaped onto love
will cheapen it into a
miracle cure for all the
aches and hurts you think
you have, and you will
realize one day that it's
not even that, and that
you're aching and hurting
even more.
There are other ways to
be happy and feel wanted
and have purpose. You
are going to spend so
much time trying to find
one person who can do it
all for you, that you'll
believe in yourself less
and less.
Start
ako nga pala si Andrew Alcaraz
1st year college palang ako crush ko na siya
hindi ko alam kung bakit
kasi siguro
maganda siya,brown hair at walang kaartehan sa katawan
classmate ko siya since magka same course kami
siya ay si Diane Montes
sa aming magkaka classmate siya lang ang bihira kong maka usap
bakit??
kasi nga nahihiya ako
sa totoo lang TORPE ako
oo,kahit habulin ako ng mga babae,gwapo naman ako ,pero pag may nagustuhan ako diko maamin
kinakausap naman niya ako pero pag magsasalita ako pautal utal ako
lagi ko pa siyang nakaka group pag may activities kami
ansaya niya kasama
kahit andami nang problema nakukuha parin niyang ngumiti
Nagpatuloy lang ang ganon hanggang matapos ang 1st sem
pero diko pa maamin
nagtitxt naman ako sa mga classmate ko pero pagdating sa pangalan niya diko ma send sa kanya
