When I'm gone don't cry at my grave apologizing for your mistakes you made when I was there, for you will be too late. When I'm gone don't wear black clothes to my funeral, instead wear something fun and exciting that makes you laugh. When I'm gone don't mourn over my corpse, instead laugh about all the memories we made. When I'm gone don't say goodbye, instead imagine I'm there next to you and talk about your day. When I'm gone don't complain about the bad things, instead talk about the good things. When I'm gone don't think of me as gone, instead think of me as on vacation or sleeping. When I'm gone don't forget the great times we had, don't lose your true self, don't lose sight of who you love and what you love, don't cry for me at night, don't ask yourself what you could have done to prevent this, instead do what makes you happy, laugh at the stupid things I would do, think of what you have done to help because none of this is your fault
