👨💻"Most things aren't about 'If' but about 'When'
What we want in life will most likely not happen as and how we want them to happen. And may be not happen at all.
But we must believe the 'Will' eventually or we will be dead. I have come to peace with it. Fully accepted it. And started to live in that head, heart & soul space. And it changed my life.
If we love it, feel joy and happiness majority of the time, want it and do everything we can, consistently for as long as it takes, the odds will tilt much more in our favour. Letting go of entertainment of result is 🔑 and that 💯 % under your control and decision"
You got what ANDRE has implied??
I got it easily after learning so much with him. Life always acts like life. So, we should act like alive people too. Everything can't go like we wish or want. But, we must keep giving our best in each case for what we want and what we love. And instead of worrying about the destination, about the result/entitlement, we should focus only on the road ahead of us.
One more important thing that ANDRE has made me realize is that life is not only in destiny's hands, it's in our hands too. We can't blame destiny always if we have been incapable of taking needed actions. Fail or pass, everything matters. Failures push us towards improvements and Passes encourage us for further journey. We need to give our best to get our best from life. We need to fight strongly against unwanted, undesired things and fight extra strongly for what we desire and what we love. Mr ET has taught me that life isn't about ends. It's about beginnings. So, here I am, "hope before end" to "and just beginning"
The way of thinking plays an important role in our growth. Everything that happens, good/ bad, has played a part in our personality, our vision and our growth. We don't realize it well when we go through the process. We just keep complaining and questioning. Remember all our questions are gonna answered sooner or later. But, if we are stuck with our suffering then our minds will stay foggy all the time. And we will never understand the answers even if they keep floating in front of us all the time. But, if we fight off our suffering and try to see beyond pain and stress, the answers will be there, crystal clear!!!
✍Pain is like the strict trainer who makes you go through tough sessions mercilessly. Pain hurts you, pain changes you, pain strengthens you.
It sounds painful but sometimes pains are necessary to mold us with needed changes that can lead us to where are meant to be. To the right place with the right people!!!
In the process of fighting against pain, we are gonna fail too, maybe many times. But, we should never give up because of failures. Failures don't define you as 'not eligible'. Sometimes they just mean you need to learn more, sometimes they mean you need to reconsider your choice and decision. Not getting what you worked for, doesn't mean you have lost. Maybe something more amazing is waiting for you on the same road or another road. But, nothing/no one can help you if you aren't willing to help yourself first. Recheck if that's what you want dearly and that's what you think you can give all of yourself for. Because failures may also mean you have other capabilities, abilities and skills. Just like all flames burn but they aren't the same. Their light, their tendencies, their strength, their capabilities are different. Mostly our situations' effects depend upon how we see them, how we take them, how we grow ourselves in them. Not, if we have failed or passed them. As THOMAS EDISON said,
"I haven't failed. I have successfully discovered 10000 things that won't work"
So, now I think otherwise. I haven't failed. I just discovered what and how things wouldn't work for me. Whatever and however we think directly touches our soul through our mind. Thoughts can give us powerful wings or trap us in cages. The choice is completely ours!! So, instead of repenting of former decisions, we should accept the lessons we have learned through our failures and use them along with all of our energy into new decisions and new beginnings.
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The Night flower & Her Moon - Journey of Beginnings
RomanceAADHYA, a single 33 year old woman, suffers the long painful Stuck of life because of her dark past and not-so-helping family and society. She knows past can't be changed, present can't be lost but life isn't easy to handle especially with wounds an...
