I request you all to read this writing with an open mind and heart...Here I just express my concerns and my outrage of how ITV is projecting love......ITS FANTASISED IDEA OF LOVE.....
Abhimanyu the Great: Tumse pyaar karta tha, karta hoon aur humesha karta rahunga....bohot koshish ki apne dil ko samjane ki manna ne ki, tumse pyaar na karna ki ...
Akshara: Main tumse pyaar nahi karthi Abhimanyu....
Abhi again: Yeh baat mere nazar me nazar dalke toh boldiye kya khudki nazar mein nazar dalke bol paogi???? Kyunki sach kya hai tumhara dil bhi jaanta hai.....
Want an example of toxicity right there Mr. Abimanyu Birla.....chalti firti toxicity ka missal....
I really hope now atleast people see his toxicity that he beholds beyond his hot abs and a fit physic. Again it is the character I am talking about not the actor...
For me from starting Abhimanyu and akshara and Arohi were toxic.....Although I could imagine a grey shade for both the sisters...I never really liked him from the start....to be honest..
His talking , his way of handling Akshu always seemed he handled a small kid ,typical nibba is what I always felt and cringed....
The thought that if they have good chemistry then the ML can walk over the FL many times is sickening and The Serial projecting such shows is even more unsettling....
This guys suddenly remembers his love when he is about to marry and when his EX wife is already married...!!!!
To me, For Abhimanyu Akshara is just a toy.....Imagine a kid with a toy , he plays with her whole time, keeps her with him 24/7 and when he is bored he snaps the neck of the toy.....and after some he gets bored and gets back to his toy and sticks its head back and plays again...
I know you feel bad for the toy....Here the toy is Akshara and the kid is Abhimanyu, and for god sake he is a doctor.....ek toh these serials come with such respectable profession and write the characters as dumb as possible....that irks me a lot....
It is not anymore how much chemistry they can have?? It is how much red flags can you ignore if the banda is hot???
I know there are stans that love Abhira Bonding and chemistry...But hear me out.....Its not Arohi vs Akshara I am talking about only abhi here...and the writing here....
When things are visually shown and seen It creates a big impact ...When a pair is shown so intensely in love ....people seemed to attach with them and for abhira it was always the hot scenes that grabbed the audience for them , the songs, the dream sequence the writers took the audience to a dream world always .....and That's exactly what made the viewers made go gaga about them and I completely understand to make the audience indulge in your story some scenes like these are required....but the saddest part is these visually represented hot scenes etch in your mind as love and when the character does the most toxic thing they seem to unsee it,,,,
And here is when even the most horrible things happen, the audience believing in these type of love and hoping one day one character like abimanyu would walk into their life....!!!
The most paining part is there are many serials like this....
Ghum...I have no words to tell about IPS Virat chavan....the most effed up character of ITV an obssesive lover and a spineless rat...... and many more .... like he is married to his bhabhi....Its wrong on soooo many levels and still loves his Ex wife....I feel nauseating .....nd irritating when some household treats their bhabhi as a friend and some like their mother how are such stories even still telecasted ???
On hand there are movies releasing like thappad that are appreciated, and speaks on self respect and on the other there are people cheering for such Toxic male leads...and hoping Fls to reunite with toxic ones.....You know what the Irony is .......Most of it are girls hyping it!!!!!
When you produce and the show is being telecasted on a such a wide range a national level...You have a responsibility.....To create awareness because shows like these are daily seen and a thing that you daily see affects your mentality too....
When things are shown with such impact and intensity, scenes like hot romance closeups on his hands hovering around her body the line becomes thinner and thinner as there are so much of Audience emotions involved that they cannot come back.....
In a generation where girls are reaching new heights and soaring with success we show FLS so incompetent even though she studies law, she never speaks up.....????
I really wish the writers come out of this typecasting of FLs and they realise how much of an impact they are making on the society.....
And what I even more wish is people realising its just a serial character and nothing is real about it .....
Listen I too rant but I take nothing personal nor I draw any inspiration from it...Things get awry and bad when you take it like your own story...and that's the exact impact that I am talking about that serial makes on people they think Its their Akshu and abhi , while in reality nothing exists....And that's exactly why the makers should consider what they are showing and writing for ITV.
Bottom Line : It is the writers' responsibility to show good characters, If they are Toxic write a Strong Opposite lead not a one like akshara, you may defend saying she says she does not love him... Wait another 20 Episodes she will also be lovey dovey.......
But since the writers have failed miserably lets be responsible audience and understand what is depicted and shown is just a fiction and Lets hopefully not get inspired from it....
And most importantly If you are here to bash the writer, I know for sure that being the strong willed person that you are you may not agree with me now, but someday you may realize how much these shows has consumed you....
I too write ffs but My only request let's not be so fantazised by them so much so that we spark their ideas of love nd relationships.... In our lives...
Be always aware and conscious and don't let these serials get to you...!!!! They are for your entertainment and NOT TED TALKS !!!!!
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