Love is Letting Go

Love is letting go.
Period.
It's the Energy of Love that binds The
Uni-verse together. Love is what
breathes life into us and gives all living
things this chance to be alive.
One of the most Loving things that we've
been given from our Creator is the gift
of choice. Choice is a fundamental part
of life. Free will is one of our Creator's
greatest gifts to us.
Free will boils down to this: you can
choose to connect to Love, or not.
Since we've been given the privilege to
choose for ourselves, that means if you
Love someone, you must give him or her
that privilege. Trying to force or
manipulate Love never works - it'll only
backfire.
If you say you Love someone because of
what they can give you, that's not Love,
that's selfishness. When you Love
someone, it's always from a place of
overflow rather than lack.
Respecting someone's free will can be
both devastating AND truly rewarding.
When you let people go to decide for
themselves, they may choose things that
don't match up with your desires. There
have been many times in my own life
where this has happened, both in
business and in my personal life.
But every time this shattering of illusion
has happened, it's brought me closer to
the Truth. AND it's brought me closer to
Love.
At the same time, when you let go and
honor someone's free will there is also
the possibility that they will choose you;
and when that happens you have begun
to plant very strong roots for a
relationship.
Love is letting go because no one feels
Loved when they are controlled or
manipulated. No one really feels Loved
when they can sense that someone is
trying to take from them instead of give.
There is a difference between taking and
receiving. It's sooooo important to be
able to receive Love. But to try to drain
others of their Love isn't Loving - it's
being an emotional vampire.
All this can be flipped and applies to
YOU, too. You deserve to be with
someone who Loves you right where you
are. You deserve someone who is so
connected to Love that they have the
confidence to let you choose for yourself.
You deserve to be in relationships where
people are sharing from overflow rather
than trying to be emotional vampires.
Choose to hang with people who give you
the respect to let you decide. And at the
same time give those you Love this same
respect.
Remember, you are always provided for.
The Uni-verse and The Energy of Love
are always with you. Ask to feel Love's
presence and you will be filled - not by
someone else, but by The Uni-verse.
Tell yourself, "Love is letting go. I am ok.
Love is letting go. I am full as I am. Love
is letting go. The perfect Love will find
me. Love is letting go, so I let go and let
Love decide".
Love,