Hey,
"Forgiveness." Why is it so hard to forgive someone? like deep down you really want to forgive them but you can't. It's not easy i know but is it that hard?
I mean we all make mistakes .someone can say" but my mistakes are so small" .does it really matter ?? a mistake is a mistake no matter how big or small they are.so we have to understand that everyone's not perfect.
So forgive them.yeah yeah i know you'll think wow it's easy for you to just type it but it's hard for us to just forgive them.but trust me it is worth it. It makes you hundreds time better than before.also you can face them strongly, who hurts you before. Most importantly no more awkward situations around them.hahahah..
So yeah back to the first question. Why is it so hard to forgive someone? Maybe i think it's because forgiveness is part of the healing process and forgiveness alone won't fix the problem. Although you forgive someone who wronged you ,your opinion of them might be changed forever.believe me i know you can't just forget the hurtful memories no matter what. So, then Don't. Forgive but not forget.
I mean forgiving someone does not mean that we forget what they did.so then you can learn from your past experience.
I'm in love with this qoute,
"When you forgive,
You do not erase the memory. You simply choose to forgive to free yourself from the bitterness "
And REMEMBER,forgiveness is for YOU not for them.
Who knows, one day maybe ,just maybe one day you'll be able to forget them too...
