Red Lights [BANG CHAN FF]

- Prelude -

Rough sex is all about feeling pleasure through pain. It can include the following: spitting, slapping, spanking, choking, bondage, degrading, and all kinds of kinky stuff.

In general, rough sex refers to sexual activity that includes some form of aggressive behavior. It's hard to define because a practice can cover a wide spectrum - from hard kissing to the incorporation of BDSM elements.

But what's most important, crucial, is CONSENT! If not all parties are fully consenting, that act is considered assault and a very serious crime, and it is NOT rough sex. Consensual rough sex does not usually result in either violence or injury.

Enthusiastic consent is saying "yes" to something vs. not saying "no". With hardcore sex, it's especially important to give and get consent for specific acts.

Keep checking to see if you're on the same page with your partner - if you should stop or continue. And just because you have done something once, doesn't mean you'll do it again.

One cannot give consent if they're underage, under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol, asleep or passed out, intimidated or threatened, or if there's a noticeable and uneven balance of power.

Much of the rough sex depicted in pornography can be emotionally or physically dangerous if not done correctly so one should always make sure that whatever they try isn't putting them in danger of mental distress or physical injury.

When it comes to accessories, such as sex toys or any form of restraining (bondage), it's always best to learn how those tools work before using them to avoid injury. Also, vigorous sex may put additional stress on condoms so it's always the best option to use a thicker, stronger one to avoid it breaking and prevent any STI, especially when engaging in such an act with a person you don't know much about.

While alcohol and drugs can lower inhibitions, they can also affect clear judgment and lead to regretful decisions. Some people use certain drugs to enhance their sexual experience, a practice known as "chemsex". But those drugs shouldn't be mixed with alcohol or any other street drug. For the best experience, avoid any and every substance!!!

Aftercare is a key BDSM practice, important for all hardcore sex. It's a way to reconnect and reset after a rough sexual act emotionally - it gives you time to process and talk about the experience with your partner. Aftercare can include things like kissing, snuggling, talking kindly to each other, bringing your partner water, bathing together, or treating any injuries. Some tenderness or scratches are normal, heavy bleeding from anal or vaginal tearing is NOT normal and requires medical attention.

Good communication is vital to making rough sex safe and enjoyable. Part of the aftercare is talking, and discussing what you liked and didn't like about your experience. It's especially important if you think that your partner has crossed the line of what's acceptable and not, for example: you felt pressured into doing something you didn't want to, the encounter went beyond the boundaries, your partner ignored the safe word, or you were hurt either emotionally or physically. Consent is ongoing - agree to terms if you find them safe but you can also change your mind whenever you see it needed. If you're unhappy with anything that happened, clear the air before you have sex again. Communication is the key!

In a healthy relationship, BDSM activities are based on respect and pleasure is mutual.

(source: WebMD)

But Bang Chan's relationships are not healthy. 

He practices everything mentioned aside from aftercare. He just doesn't have time for romantic kissing, soft cuddling, sleepovers, showering together, etc. He gives his partners a safe word, is all about consent, but none of the deep talking and all that "relationship shit". 

He does the "business", both he and his partner are pleased, and that's it - end of the show. No strings attached, no feelings, no relationship. Just lust and pleasure, and a person willing to participate in his plays - a brave enough person who won't be scared away once Chan becomes Christopher.

Girls come and go, he never repeats the same play with the same girl, but one will stay... He will want her again and again.

Because... She's just like him... Messed up, both in the head and in the heart. His perfect match. And they will be perfect for each other because they will both see red lights every time they come together.

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Jung Akari

A 25-year-old Korean-Japanese woman, Sagittarius (Dec 15, 2000), currently unemployed. Born and raised in Seoul, South Korea. Visits her mother's side of the family in Japan on holidays. Has an older sister. A freak in bed.

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Bang Christopher Chan

A 28-year-old Korean-Australian man, Libra (Oct 3, 1997), a COO (Chief Operating Officer) of a large and successful company. Born and raised in Seoul, South Korea
Visits his family in Australia when he has time. Has two younger siblings. A bigger freak in bed.