Have you ever gotten stuck on a "maybe or maybe not"?
Ya both just like me😉
You must have and if you haven't you must coz trust me even if its a delulu (Millennials💁....... delusional situation) its so much fun like you feel like ahh.....did I just did that.
Not getting it. I'll explain. But before that just to clear I am not talking about Uncertainty.
I am talking about the log kya kahenge wala thingy.
Instead of waiting for constant approval and validation from someone or just not seeing or talking to someone. Just say maybe or maybe not and move on.
ok, so lets talk about: The Power of "Maybe" and Moving On
You know the feeling – you have an idea, like a solo trip or a new haircut, but you get stuck thinking about what other people might say. "What if they don't like it?" Suddenly, that exciting idea gets tangled up in worries, and before you know it, the opportunity has slipped away.
So here's how the "Maybe" Mindset work
Here's the liberating truth: sometimes, it doesn't matter what "they" think.
"They" could be a friend, a family member, even a voice in your own head telling you it's not a good idea. But here's the thing – their opinion, while valuable at times, doesn't define your path.
YOLO💃💃💃💃so no overthinking
let me give u a example Your crush asks if you want to hang out...on, like, Tuesday. Your brain goes into overdrive: "Is Tuesday a good day? Will my hair cooperate? Should I go with him?" Stop the presses! Just say, "Maybe or maybe not, I'll let you know!" This gives you time to breathe, stock him even more, check on your hair (and your horoscope, if that's your thing) without feeling pressured.
Here's the beauty of this phrase: it gives you control. You're not saying no, but you're not saying yes either. It's like The Land of Unsure Yet - both open and closed until you decide!
But Wait, There's More!
"Maybe or maybe not" isn't just about social stuff. It can be applied to anything! Want to try that funky new dance craze but worried you'll look silly? "Maybe or maybe not, gotta see a tutorial first!" Feeling the urge to redecorate your room with neon paint? "Maybe or maybe not, gotta check my design sense first!" (see, they're involved now!)
Life's too short to be stuck in analysis paralysis. Embrace the "maybe or maybe not" and see where it takes you. You might surprise yourself with your newfound freedom and confidence. Who knows, maybe or maybe not you'll even discover a hidden talent for neon polka dots in your room! The possibilities are endless!
Remember: Don't let the fear of what others think hold you back. Trust your gut, take a chance, and maybe, just maybe, you'll have a blast along the way. Now go forth and "maybe or maybe not" the world!
Signing off
Not So Little Girl
Radha Khandelwal
