SEEING THE UNSEEN

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If insecurities strike, what would you do?

Life is SO unfair, but that's how life is well-defined. There’s a day when we feel like we are perfect, yet the mirror taunts us, showing that we have innumerable flaws, nebulous secrets that can't unfold, and inevitable doubts and insecurities. And that's fine. It's fine that, in your perspective and others', you aren't perfect; there will come a day when you'll realize you are because that's how God sees you. All those things make you perfect and unique.

However, reality snaps us back. It's easy to talk about it and put it in our minds, but sometimes we just can't let it go. It bothers us a LOT. Especially when we see a lot of people having what they want, and we wonder, why can't we have those things, right? When we view people as good or the best, we question, why can't we be like them? Insecurities can be emotional, physical, environmental, or spiritual.

Having these insecurities might lead us to doubt ourselves, suffusing our thoughts with what-ifs and enduring insufferable nights questioning ourselves, "How can we overcome these insecurities?"

Having insecurities doesn't mean there's no satisfaction in us. For example, being insecure about your looks, your status in life, your family's bonds, or how a complete family goes to church every Sunday, and many more. Some people might think, "you're just jealous" or "you're having those thoughts because you're not satisfied," but that's not it. We're insecure because our hearts and minds need fruitful words, warm hugs, assurance, and a reminder that the uncertainties we have are unique weapons that make us even more perfect.

We are merely blinded by our rueful side, believing that having those insecurities is our greatest downfall. Hearing people's words that amplify your insecurities can make you feel like you're downgrading yourself, just like how deep a hole can be. Accept it or not, we do this. We always think about the bad things about ourselves without taking the time to see the good things in us. Now, if you're doing this again, this time, stand and stare at the mirror. What do you see? You. That's it. You see yourself, and that's who you are. Be YOU.

There are many ways to overcome your insecurities, but the most effective solution is—BE YOU. If other people can't remind you how grateful, beautiful, kind, and perfect you are, remind yourself. If other people judge and criticize you, praise yourself even more. If other people can't, you can and you will, whatever things you do. If those voices in your head point out your insecurities, then remove your brain—just kidding. If that happens again, the point where you question yourself, your worth, value, and everything else, read the first part or first paragraph of what you're reading right now.

The question is, what will you do this time?

—07/30/24—

author's note:

I hope you're all doing well, my lovely eagles. I'm praying and rooting for all of your success. Anyway, that song is my favorite reminder—you might like it too! Feel free to play it, it's worth hearing ;⁠)