Attraction (18+)

Warning and Clarification

Warning:

This story is intended for readers aged 18 and older. If you are under 18, please select a different story. Reader discretion is advised. The following content may be sensitive, and the list of warnings will be updated if necessary.

Content Warning:

-Dysphoria

-Mentions of suicide-

Self-harm

-Transphobia

-Homophobia

-Sex (including BDSM)

-Swearing

-Alcohol

-Drugs

Clarification:

Being transgender is NOT:

-A fetish

-A choice

-Wrong

Being gay, pansexual, or any other orientation is NOT:

A choice

-Wrong

Gender identity and sexual orientation are distinct aspects of who we are. Many transgender individuals identify as gay, lesbian, straight, bisexual, pansexual, etc. Gender dysphoria, which affects daily life, is not a choice. For many, being cisgender would simplify their lives. Sexualization and discrimination against transgender individuals are harmful and unacceptable. Gender dysphoria can lead to severe anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts. This story aims to highlight the experiences of transgender and other individuals and the societal challenges they face.

To transgender readers: Engaging with content from other trans creators can be a valuable and supportive resource during your transition.

A fetish is different from genuine affection. A fetish objectifies someone as a sexual fantasy rather than valuing them as a person, which is harmful and unacceptable.

Our gender identity and sexual orientation are intrinsic parts of who we are, not choices. All gender and sexual identities are valid as long as they don't harm others. It's important to embrace our true selves and treat one another with respect.

For some reason I see people using trans slurs when wanting to chat with transgender people which is fucking weird and horrible. Do not use slurs in the first place. Most of the time I'm guessing they learn it from porn and have no idea what that word even means. Just stop sexualizing trans people it's fucking fucked up.

Also tip for other trans people; do not make your own binder as they are oftenly unsafe, I recommend buying one that is safe, they are normally more expensive but it is not worth the bruised ribs and other potential problems of one that isn't. There are ways to get them for free which you should research on and remember to do proper measurements before buying them and do research on the reviews on the specific one that you are after. Do not exercise in a binder and do not sleep in one, do not wear it for more than eight hours, if a binder makes it hard to breathe take it off immediately! Stay safe and be careful!

Demiromantic describes a type of romantic attraction where someone may only feel romantic interest after forming a strong emotional connection. This is independent of their sexual orientation.

Demisexual refers to experiencing sexual attraction only after establishing a strong emotional connection. This is separate from romantic attraction but similarly depends on emotional closeness.

In summary:

Demiromantic: Romantic attraction develops after a deep emotional connection.

Demisexual: Sexual attraction develops after a deep emotional connection.

A person may identify as both demiromantic and demisexual, meaning they require a strong emotional bond for both romantic and sexual attraction. However, these terms address different types of attraction and may not always correlate with one another. Experiences can vary widely among those who identify as demiromantic or demisexual, just as with any other sexual orientation.

I have found a website that offers free chest binders for those who cannot afford or get one safely, as the site states you can have the address to someone that you feel safe with, whether it be a family member or a friend. Make sure to measure correctly or else I will hunt you down, stay safe and make sure to read what the site has to say before filling out the form as it does say important information!

For those who may be interested here are some transgender peoples YouTube, watching other people can be helpful and hopeful. However, do not compare your transition to others as that's just unhealthy. 

- https://www.youtube.com/@SupraMan38 (Sam Collins) 
- https://www.youtube.com/@Jammidodger (Jammidodger)
- https://www.youtube.com/@KYLEDAVY25 (AKA Prince Kyle)
- https://www.youtube.com/@august_skyz (August)
- https://www.youtube.com/@NOAHFINNCE (Noah)

Thank you for reading. Be kind to one another and have a wonderful day!