I thought about this recently: How did Wilted Rose (my nickname for her) even know I was new to our family at that time? I don't remember our family telling her that I was new. So if we didn't tell her, then how did she know? I remember the dream that I had of her long ago, which might be the reason I'm overthinking, but the dream was of us fighting because she was on that maggot's side. Wouldn't that mean that she knew that I was new from the very start that I was new? And she didn't actually want to join our family, she just wanted to get rid of me?
