from orphan to success

January 20 of 1983

In January 20 of I was born in Honduras in 1983, I was the middle child of 4 children, I are grew up in a difficult home, my dad was alcoholic, my mom was a teacher in a school, I come from a humble home, I will say I had a interesting childhood, my dad abandons us when I was 3 years old, then some years later when I was 4 years old, my sister was  6 years old, and 4 years later my brother victor was born, and then 6 years later my brother Ernesto was born, we had a difficult childhood all of us, my step father was alcoholic like my dad, thank god he didn't do anything to me or my sister, because we were the only girls in the family, but well my step dad and my dad always hit my mom, my mom was a the best and I'm thankfully that she raise me to be the women I am now but she die when I was 11 in 1995, it was difficult to live like this because me were alone without a mother, I thank my grandmother that she support us when she could but she die in 2024, when my mother die my grandmother decide to rise us to us continue living, but she didn't  was with us that much but because she had other children that she love were just her grandchildren nothing more, it was hard because I didn't had my mother to tell the things that happen to me, like with my first period, I had to hide it for 7 moths until my grandmother discover it, it was hard because I had to grow up so fast at my age, at 8 I already knew how to cook by myself, I was the most responsible of my 3 siblings, I was good at art and I always like to read and study even now I still doing this, I was always studying even in vacations, I was always the most intelligent of the class and many times I was one of the best in school, I had many hobbies like reading, painting and drawing, studying, designing, and to go to church because I come from a Cristian home, I always thank god because thanks to him I had what I had and I am what I am now, I don't know English that why I didn't had that many opportunities I just know some basics worlds nothing more, but I'm grateful with the life I have now, but well my childhood was difficult my mom die when we were just kids, my stepdad and my dad were alcoholic and my dad abandoned us when we were so young, I still wonder why my mom, a great teacher, a great women that everyone respect, could marry such very bad mans, she was the best, she was strict but she did everything she could to rase us up, my mom was a respectful and good women and mother to marry such an abusing and bad mans, but well thank goodness I am marry to a good man and the father of my two beautiful children baby and my other baby, My grandmother put me in a career as a pharmacist, but I liked microbiology so without her knowing I changed careers for 4 years until she discovered it She was angry about it, we had a big fight but now I thank her, because she only want the best for me and my siblings, I hope she is resting in peace, I love her because she was able to help me and my brothers with what she could, yeah we were her grandchildren nothing more, and that she was very spoiled with our uncles, but she helped us as much as she could, at the university she met many men, I had my first boyfriend in college, the only one I would like to forget is someone who I almost die for him, I cut my veins for him, and one time they found me on the floor unconscious because I took too many sleeping pills, he didn't care about me he cheating on me with several women, and well in that incident my aunt Marry came from Panama and took me out of that house where I lived with him, because she knew that if I continued there I was going to die, and well I broke up with him, for many reasons, and now I am happily married to my husband, I thank God who gave me a great man, a great career, and great children, although my daughter knows about my ex and that's why she hates it when she hears his name, he is in the United States and thank God I didn't marry him, because I had planned to marry him but thank you God I didn't do it. At the university I tried the drink, I didn't like it, thank God, but it was only the drink, nothing more, at the university I met a lot of good people and bad people, and so I finally graduated from the university with honors, at the university yes I made many mistakes that I regret but that's how life works, we will make mistakes but we learned from them, I learned from my mistakes and moved forward thanks to the help of God, when I graduated from university I went to social service, then there a friend of mine I present a man who is now my husband, the man I love, at first I didn't like, I did just like him as a friend, but in the end I fell in love with him and we got married in 2016, and although I got married in 2016 I first had my oldest baby, and after 2 years my other baby was born, then I had a laboratory in Yoro, and I lived there for 12 years, before I close it and give it to someone that will use it like I do in that time, and I now live in Tegucigalpa for 4 years for my work and my children's school, I'm grateful for that I met the school and I put my children there and they are still there now and I am still living my happy life with a loving husband and my beautiful children. My grandmother died recently but we forgiven each other a few months before and I was able to say goodbye to her better way, thanks to her and my family I am the person I am.

I just want to tell you my story because I want you to know that no matter what happens, if you want to do something, you can do it, I know you can, and you will learn from your mistakes like I did and I'm still doing it because I know that I'm not perfect but I try to be a better person,  no one is perfect but we need to try to be better person, love yourself and don't let anyone say you can't do it or try to let you down, and always try to do your best and show your best side, thanks for reading, good luck in your life.