life as a journey

Have you ever thought of life as a journey? Well let's say it truly is, a journey's main components can be said as the traveler and the destination. As for journeys, we tend to make turns and stops at several stages and other times to pick up and sometimes offloading people. Other times we travel high up the mountains and other times low as in down the hills. This would want to make me view life as a journey. Wanna know how?

As we described earlier on journeys tend to take turns. Turns in a journey can be described as the changes we make in order to get to where we are supposed to be. Turns can be useful since it requires making decisions on which turn we should make in order to arrive at the destinations we want. Turns are described as 'changes' in life, so looking at changes we make in life let's say all of us have ever reached at a point of making the wrong decisions and the right ones but most of them are the wrong ones that were never meant to happen and therefore the choices we made are attached to us whether good or bad they are ours.as for the wrong choices, we have regretted some of them. Mostly when we are the ones to be blamed. Wrong choices have been made over the years we can't actually say the we are the first ones to make the wrong choices. Wrong choices do leave a scar or a lesson to the doer or the one being done the actions. I don't believe am actually saying this but wrong choices are the ones that have taken us this far. They are part of us, wrong choices are actually part of human life so sometimes when people make mistakes, we have no right to judge them since we have been on that path. I am not advocating for wrong choices but there reaches a point where there is only one option that is saving oneself, and when this time comes choices are actually at rest.

Drifting away from wrong choices there are moments we just feel right to make the right choices. Choices are many but when you make the right choice mmmh it just feels like heaven. Do you ever realize that most of the time we make the right choices nobody and I mean nobody can tell you nothing. you just feel proud and keep smiling all through. Another time that makes us feel proud is when we are actually advised and it hits the spot therefore making adjustment on where we actually went wrong. Having done the right choice makes us feel proud of ourself than everybody has ever felt for you.

Let's look at onloading and offloading people at several stages as per journey. As we are on a journey to wherever we want to go the driver picks up passengers accordingly to where they are going. People who are picked up tend to use the same road but the destination might be different. Why should the destination be different yet we are using the same vehicle? that's probably because we all want different things in life. Our experiences might be the same but considering the destination we have to load some things and offload others. A good example is friends, looking at friends in each life experience we had some friends, but continuing to the next level we consider to cut them off as a requirement for succeeding. To all the good friends that have been on the same vehicle since we started and others that have joined later on and have been supportive to us, we give thanks to meeting you people you've been of great help therefore thanks. The people or more of the friends we chose to cut off mainly to succeed its not that we couldn't choose to remain with you because all you ever did was be there at my success and disappear when things went out of hand. I've actually wanted to know the main reason as to why we despise some people yet we on the same page as them a good example to describe this are the LGBTI people. I don't really know how I could literally explain them like how they behave and do things. We talk of gene mutations in biology i.e. how chromosomal mutations can change a person and cause a defect that maybe the cause but do we know? I don't think so. everybody has made their own mistakes I mean who hasn't? if anybody should judge this people it should be the creator Himself. Am not trying to support the idea on LGBTQ but am trying to prove a point. How About everybody to try and reflect on their doings in the past years they have lived.

By the way do you notice that all the times there is nothing like small sin and big sin, each and every one is referred to as a sin regardless of how small or how big the sin is in whatever life I've lived I've known all my life that a sin is a sin regardless, so when we actually judge let's reflect on ourself before getting to others. Its so annoying to think that the same same people you've been with are the same same that point their fingers at you. come to think of it everyone has their own life to live so why poke your nose at other people's businesses or more likely their lives. These days each and every one is responsible for choosing the paths they follow. More likely the dreams they are following are making them chose their own paths that's the destination they want, they might even choose to either walk and try their luck that is choosing the long way or they might choose to use cars and vehicles shortening the distance between where they are and where they want to be. Shortening the distance may sometimes not work, ask me why? Probably because using shortcuts may actually get you lost in the middle or may actually get you to learn new things. Shortcuts might be a good thing or might be a bad thing each and every choice always has a good and a bad consequence. Though many people may say or advise that people should start from the bottom for you to actually succeed and reach the top, others use the shortcuts and yet get to the same destinations. Any choice we have made regardless of being good and being bad, we own it its ours, we made the choice, it defined us and has always defined our characters, we have learnt from the bad choices and have rejoiced in the good ones so if anyone despises you regardless of the choices you've made tell them its your choice.

Lets look at the thing things we've done during the journey, we have helped, been helped, given up our sit to some old people, we have ignored others, we have been to conversation with people we don't even know some of which we may call destiny, we've also listened to music while looking at the window and all those things you've done during the journey .As for help, we've given a hand where necessary and they i.e. the people we've seated next to have helped where we've asked them to help. As for giving up our sit for the old people they have done that but to be honest I've never done that.it might sound misleading but our buses 'matatu' do not allow that. Talking of ignorance, it can be served best to haters and people who are trying to make your life a living hell. As for having conversation with new faces and new people most of the time its actually what we need. Listening to music doesn't even need an explanation we all have done that in need of clearing the head.