To All My Ladies

Ok girls so sometimes I have time on my hands and I use that time to think about my life and all the things that I'm going through and sometimes on how I can help other people because I like for me & mines to be happy. So here are some things that I would like to tell you girls:

Girl you are beautiful

I might not know you but I feel like God only brings pretty people to my page lol but no seriously; everyone is unique so just because you don’t look like somebody else doesn’t mean that your ugly or unattractive. Some of the so-called best looking people are so insecure because they feel like they have to hold up to everyone else’s standards of how they should look. If you got your own style then you ain’t gotta worry about somebody else’s opinion…you feel me? Alright cool…

Don’t stress over some mess

Don’t you ever in your life wonder why you’re supposedly not good enough for somebody. If you ever end up questioning yourself or your worth over somebody who could less than 0 fucks about you then they are not worth it. For example if it’s this guy & he is just panty dropping fine but he doesn’t notice you then don’t go out of your way trying to make him notice you cause most likely you end up with hurt feelings or you end up embarrassing yourself. Also if he only pays you attention because he wants sex or something along those lines then NO, HE’S NOT WORTH STRESSING OVER SOME MESS.

Love yourself before you love somebody else

Before you can know how to love someone else you have to love yourself first. I can’t really tell you ways to love yourself but just know that at the end of the day of you can think back of at least one thing about yourself that makes you smile then you’ve made a step at loving yourself. On the other hand, if you think that you’re incapable of love then just give yourself time…eventually you’ll realize that you’re here for a reason and someone out there will love you for you.

Embrace your flaws

I don’t care what anybody says, we all have flaws. They might be physical, emotional, mental, or some other type but I know that they’re there. Take me for example I’m an aspiring plus sized model/fashion designer/rapper (weird combination right?) but anyways I feel like people judge me before they get a chance to experience my talent so one of my flaws would be my weight so therefore I embrace it. I’m not the type of girl to pretend I’m a size 5 but at least I’m confident because I know somebody likes it and I know that as long as I have inner beauty and a great personality my true beauty will shine thru; and plus I think I’m beautiful anyways and I just happen to be plus sized. Also I’m emotionally flawed but hey who isn’t? My flaws make me better in all my hopes and dreams because they put depth into my soul and they seem to make me wiser because my third eye is so open nowadays.

Don’t go looking for a BOY, let a MAN find you

Ladies, don’t go on a search for a boy because if you do find a “suitable” one then you’ll get the immature games, the childishness, the niaveness, and every other petty things that comes with them. Now on the other hand if you let a man find you then most likely it will last if you like him because he had to see something in you that made him want to step to you in the first place. And don’t get me wrong, some so-called “men” can be childish and naive but usually we girls can tell them apart from the good guys.

If you can’t see the person you’re dating as someone who will be in your future for the long run then why are they still in your life?

Ok I never thought of this until recently but if you can't see yourself with your present boyfriend or future boyfriend with at least 10 years from now then I think you should analyze your relationship to see why you think you 2 can't last that long. And the only reason I’m saying this is because love can blind you but only temporarily and by the time you start to notice things you’ve wasted the best years of your life with somebody who wasn’t worth it.

If you’re a big girl get comfortable in your own skin, like literally

If you’re a big girl then I just want to personally tell you that you are one of the sexiest kinds of woman God made! Lol I know that girls that aren’t skinny are probably used to being called some type of obscenity but just know this: FUCK THE HATERS! They most likely just jealous and just want something that you got but they can't have. Also I just wanna say that if you’re uncomfortable in your skin then you have 2 options: change your image or change the way that you view your image; plain and simple. And what I mean by that is that if you don’t like what you see in the mirror then you can change your physical appearance or you can find something on your body that you think makes you beautiful and accentuate that so that you could have a better self image.

If you’re on the smaller side then girl do what you do & keep doing you

Now if you are a girl and you’re average size or smaller then that’s fine because everybody wasn’t meant to be alike. And the same advice I give to my lovely plus girls I give to you…FUCK THE HATERS! Just know that you should be honored that somebody pays enough attention to you to choose something to talk about you about.

And by the way I will update later when more issues come to mind or when someone wants my opinion on something