Love? That word is so ironic. Alam ng lahat... well, they just know the word as well as the feeling. Either me or you can't really explain what was it and what is its real meaning. It can never be explained, merely because we all have different interpretations of love. Hindi ito basta sinasabi lang, we have to let those people feel the feeling of being loved. Maraming paraan ng pagpapakita ng pagmamahal like... magparaya kung alam mong hindi naman talaga sya sasaya sayo, sundin ang gusto ng pamilya mo kahit alam mong ikakalungkot mo to, wag umalis kahit subrang nasasakal kana, magpasensya kahit parang sasabog kana, magtiis kahit parang hindi mo na kaya at marami pang pagpapakamartyr na nagpapakita ng pagmamahal. Pero pwede din namang magpakaselfish minsan diba? Pwede naman sumuway sa mga ayaw nila.. kung sasaya ka, why not right? Bastat alam mo lang na walang mapapahamak na tao. Hindi masamang maging selfish minsan. Hindi sa lahat ng oras pwede mong isakrepisyo ang sarili mong kaligayahan para lang sa mga taong mahal mo. Love is not about making other people happy and hurting yourself! Kung ganyan lang din naman, bakit pa tayo magmamahal kung ang ending eh tayo lang din naman ang masasaktan?
Kaya ikaw.. oo! Ikaw na nagbabasa nito, don't limit your self when it comes to happiness, but always think of the consequences. Life's too short to frown. Don't let your life be full of regrets. There are just three choices of decision and possible outcome in life, either "you try and be satisfied", "be disappointed but at least you did try" or "never try at all and regret". Every decisions worth it though. Don't let the other people dictate you. If you know what's best for you, then go for it. At least in the end you have no one to blame but yourself.
Love isn't all about sacrifices, but also making your self happy. It's not about giving up and suffer alone. When you know you can still fight for it then go. It's not about being weak and scared, it's all about being strong and responsible.
Maybe you're wondering why I wrote this. It's not like I'm insisting my thought, but its more like a REALIZATION hit me and I just wanna share it with you.
Sometimes you really have to break a rule, guard down your wall and explore the real world. Stop hiding on your shield. Learn to immune yourself with the reality. If you got hurt, then accept it. You can't really move on if you'll keep on reflecting yourself with the past. It's a PAST. A MEMORY. I'm not telling you to forget it, instead make it as a motivation and a lesson.
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