Long Distance Relationship (Mga Taong Nakaranas ng LDR)

A STORY THAT YOU MAY ENJOY , ANG STORYA NG MGA MAGKASINTAHANG KAHIT MALAYO SA ISA'T ISA AY  MALAKAS PA RIN ANG KAPIT NILA , LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP KUNG MASASABI,  LAHAT SILA AY NARAMDAMAN ANG PAG-IBIG NA TINATAWID NG DAGAT, BUNDOK AT KAHIT SAAN PA SA MUNDO,  ANG MGA MGA MATATAMIS NILANG  SINASABI SA ISA'T-ISA , SABI NG IBA LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP DOES'NT  WORK , PERO IBAHIN NIYO ANG MGA TAONG LUMALABAN PARA SA ISA'T ISA, KUNG SA BAGA , TO STAY FOREVER TOGETHER ,TO INFINITY AND BEYOND  , KAHIT ANG RAMING PARATING NA  STRUGGLE AT TRIALS ANG PINAGDAANAN THEY STILL HOLD AND TRUST GOD .

 If you are willing to work it out, here's how to give it every chance to survive and thrive.

1. Ask the important questions at the onset, to make sure you are both  clear on the parameters  of the relationship.

2. Do things together.

3. Consider using Skype video chat calls every day or as often as possible,text messaging,     phone calls and email every day.

4. Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible.

5.Take advantage of the benefits a long distance relationship offers.

6. Pursue common interests, even if it means pursuing them apart

7. Avoid the temptation to be controlling.

8. Try challenging each other. 

9. Talk about your future together.

10. Remember: Things will get better with time, and even the relationship will become                     better. Have hope.

11. Avoid jealousy and be trusting

12. Be positive

13. Give them a personal object of yours so in a time of need, when they miss  you, they are able  to hold on to something that once belonged to you.

14. Work towards a balanced relationship between partners. 

15.Create your own set of relationship standards that both of you have  mutually agreed                  upon.

16. Remember that you're still in a relationship.

17. Because time together is rare, when you do see each other, take as much advantage as         possible of your ability to get intimate with each other.

18. Avoid Temptation 

19. Always have Patience, Trust  Him/Her 

20. Don't loose hope, Have Faith in God.

Relationship is Not about AGE.Not about DISTANCE. The TRUST of Girl to her Real Man, the LOYALTY of Man to his Girl

" We are not too close in distance , we are not too near in miles, but our messages can touch our hearts, and thoughts can make us smile,seems like the only time i see you near is when i close my eyes or should i keep it that way?because that's the only way  to make you stay, if i was lost in an island and a genie offers me a Billion , i would gladly not take the money but i will die to wish you with me , live life in simple,eat breakfast,lunch and dinner together, it might be simple ,but life without you is nothing to live for. " 

 Ayon sa PHYSICS hindi magtatagal ang” Long Distance Relationship” dahil sa principle na “as the distance increases , the force of attraction decreases”.  pero para sa akin "LOVE is not measured by DISTANCE because as a matter of fact , love is not related in SCIENCE",the measure of  LOVE is to LOVE without MEASURE.

"kung kaya ang pagmamahal mo sa isang tao, Kahit malayo pa siya dapat kayanin mo, Kahit ‘di kayo madalas mag-usap o magkita, tiisin mo, Dahil ang pag-ibig hindi sa lapit o layo nasusukat kundi nasa puso at tiwala."

marami ngang iba diyan na basta-basta nalang bumibitaw dahil sa maling akala at walang time sa isa't isa , kasi hinndi naman ang distansya ang problema kundi kawalan ng tiwala at laging mahinala, Kung nararapat ka talaga sa Tinatawag nilang Long Distance Relationship dapat matibay ka at marunong makuntento sa isa at marunong maghintay. Paano mo masasabing mahal mo ang isang tao kung distansya niyo nga lang susuko ka na.

Do Long Distance Relationship works ?

Dami nagsasabi na Oo it can work , pero dami rin ng sasabi No it wont work. Kaya minsan tuloy naisip ng iba  na i-give Up nalang .Pero yung iba di ginagawa, kasi gusto nila mapatunayan na walang hahadlang sa kanila kahit ilang distansya pa ang pag-usapan

mahirap magsalita until wala ka sa sitwasyon na yun , eventhough you do your best to work out the relationship,distance kasi  panahon yung kalaban mo , you can't predict what can happen, even you trust so much  your partner minsan to much trust can decieve.

when break up happen in this situation, it go beyond that, na sa sobrang tiwala pati sarili mo sisihin mo just because malayo ka, actually dont blame yourself kasi hindi ka naman pumunta sa ibang bansa pra magpakasaya pumunta ka doon to dream just because of them and yet you make big dreams even not because of you alone, just because to plan both for your  future.
at ang masakit lang dun  your still hoping na kung ano yung iniwan mo ayon parin ang babalikan mo .

Literally all things change and we can never do anything on it, we just need to prepare our self for that certain point in time na tanggapin natin what is the risk of Long Distance Relationship, eventhough what ever it is .

like all other relationships, it will only depend on the faith of the couples, alam mo kahit malapit eh pwede pa rin hindi magwork, ang difference lang naman kasi kapag long distance, there are more temptation, but still if you believe him/her and the possibility of working a relationship isn't a dream,  just remember that communication is one factor affecting it , especially when it comes to time.

some say  say it's quite possible pero i have to say na dapat may deep relationship na and and i mean yung bang emotional bond you build while your together. foundation nyo ba, without this, time is bound to break the relationship apart.

tempatation is only a factor for the weak, if you have the deep respect and love for your partner no amount of "tempnation" can break you,  i have to admit saludo ako sa mga may LDR and manages it to work sometimes maging factor yung age or maturity ng persons involved  let's admit it specially when it comes sa mga lalake mga ayaw magpatali mas lalo na pag in their "experimentation" stage in life

In some opinion long distance relationships do not work. It is because it's very difficult to live without meeting each other in a relationship, and soon either of both would get some one else. So some of them  not get into long term relationships as they always get them into trouble .

depende din kasi yan sa inyong dalawa, as long as you love and trust each other, I think it will work. May mga pagsubok na pwedeng dumating sa inyo pero pagsubok lang yan, basta wag lang mawala ung trust at syempre samahan nyo ng prayers. Also communication is very important, as long as you communicate each other, I think its enough. 

if you already have "foundation" its still really hard. Sometimes, because of lack of communication, you feel like he is just an "imaginary boyfriend. sometimes you don't chat often because of so many  reasons, calls him/her once or twice a week. It will reallyhelp  love him/her and remember temptation is not a problem it's more of misery. I know it will be very happy kung bumalik na yung karelasyon mo, but, you don't know if you can face another misery kung babalik na sya ulit sa ibang bansa.

two things that really challenges LOVE at it's best: TIME AND DISTANCE

Naturally, mahirap talaga ang long distance but gaya nga ng sabi nilang lahat na with TRUST,HONESTY at samahan mo na rin ng FAITH ay may possibility na mag-succeed. Maybe they're right, maybe not pero nasa sainyo naman 'yan if you really decide to work things out. One thing I've learned about love, walang mahirap o imposible sa dalawang tao na totoong nagmamahalan, kahit harangan nga ng pana at sibat.

"When two hearts are meant for each other, no distance In relationship is too far, no time is too long, and no other love can break them apart."