To the girl dating my best friend

  You could call this jealously. But it's not. You could say that I hate you. But I don't. I don't think personally you know about your boyfriends friendship between me and him.

We met in elementary school, didn't really say a word to each other; although he did make me laugh when he was doing his stand up comedy in the 5th grade for the talent show. In middle school is where nothing happened. I didn't even know that he would be my best friend in the future.

Then came high school.

   He was in my literature class in 6th period. He made me laugh and we would talk all the time. When we were in our final months of school, he sat at lunch with me and my other two best friends. We started texting then around that timing.

   Summer ended and school began, we sat in biology together and in literature we would be distance but still talk. At this timing he became my best friend. I would cry on his shoulders, make inside jokes with him, and make memories everyday. We texted EVERYDAY. If we didn't it made me sad.

   I worked my fairytale magic that year and brought two of my best friends together as a couple. Him and *insert her name* were together forever it felt like and he was so happy. We were still close, he was my best friend even dating someone else and he would still hug me and tell my he loves me(as a friend of course).

   Then it came to the day where they broke up. Guess who he called first? Me. I stayed on the phone with him forever just to get him to stop crying. I made him laugh some. Every second he needed me I was there. When school started, he saw her and fell into my arms about to be in tears, at a party where he actually talked to her, later she left and all his guy friends were out there trying to make him feel better. But guess who he wanted out there? Me.

  And one time he even came over and we played video games and made waffles and just laughed the day away. Even laid down on the hammock and talked out things from why the sky is blue to what is our deepest fear.

   It was funny how people thought we were dating and we would just laugh it off and say how we could never see us dating.

   I was literally there for him through everything. He told me everything.He was there for me and I was there for him.

   Now I'm not telling you this to make you jealous. I have a point I swear.

   Then there came the day where you two started dating. I was so happy he finally got over his ex and was ready to move on. I couldn't of been any happier.

   Then the days of us texting constantly went away. Talking about everything went away. Me being the only girl to help him through stuff when nobody else could, went away.

But the funny thing?

If he's happy, then I'm happy.

But here's what I want you to        know.

   Make him happy. Make memories with him. Love him unconditionally. Make him your best friend. Just whatever you do don't hurt him. He's yours now. You're the only one he sees now. You're the only one who can make him happy like I used to now. Yes, he's still my best friend but it's your time to take control.

  And one more thing.

  He likes waffles.

  Sincerely,
His best friend.