As I look into the hearts of others I am starting to see that they hide the true them. They are afraid to show who they really are because they care what others think of them. They are afraid of getting judged. I have two words to say to that BE YOURSELF! Don't let others control your life by caring what they think because it will. That's why people do drugs and alcohol now a days because they wanted to fit in with the "cool crowd." If you let the judging get to you, you will find yourself doing the stupidest things in the world. The best person to be is you. If you want to follow someone follow Jesus because He is the PERFECT example to follow. He will lead you in the right direction. I'm not saying that if you follow Jesus you wont be judged. I wish that was true but its not. You will still be judged for who you are. We humans can't help ,but judge. We have a sinful nature ,but God can help you with that.
If you have any questions feel free to ask.