What Does It Mean When a Woman Admits to Her Man She's Cheating

If your spouse or woman has cheated on you, then
surely you must be hurt, weighed down, and in
confusion. But what is more agonizing is if you'd
like to continue the relationship and confusion is
making it hard for you to get in touch with your
feelings. Forgiving a cheater will never be easy, but
the following things will help you reconsider and
deal with such situations effectively.

CONSIDER BEFORE YOU ACT

Consider the situation at hand before you act.
Being one of the ambiguous things to do, because
at this point it is only your heart and mind having a
conversation. Regardless of how much you love
your partner, being cheated on is one of the most
heart shattering things you will ever have to deal
with. But a conversation between the heart and
mind will never be easy, but if you really want to
make a wise decision, then these are potential
questions that you could consider;

How did you find out about your woman's cheating
ways? Well guys you will agree that if your partner
is cheating you do not necessarily need proof
because your gut feeling is always right 110%
percent of the time. And I am not talking about
insecurity and paranoia; I mean the instincts that
signal you that your partner may be cheating. Well
let me assume you have suspicions and decide to
ask your partner if they are being unfaithful, and they
ADMIT.

What does it mean when your Partner admits she's
cheating? This could mean so many things
depending on if you got in a big fight, maybe she
met someone who she thought was really, really
special...for she thought they are way better than
you, or maybe there was alcohol in the way.

However, there are no GREAT reasons/ excuses for
cheating. But always remember emotionally
disconnection is one of the biggest reasons for
people to cheat, and this does not mean it is your
fault. Your woman cheated on you and that is her
fault, nothing you have done should have
warranted her cheating (unless you were
unfaithful first of course).

PAY ATTENTION

Emotions can hinder a person's judgement, hence
you should not confront your partner until you
feel more level headed. If you pay enough
attention you would be able to discern a lie
(remember longer explanations have higher
promise to falsify a story). So as you pay attention,
keep an open mind in the region of;

What is special about your relationship? If the
relationship is that amazing and you are willing to
forgive her and save the relationship, continue
reading. But you think you want to linger around
because you're afraid to be alone, then stop
reading now and get back to facebook or drink
that coffee because, because you should move on.
You do not need a person to make you happy
about yourself. Okay, let me not be a drama queen
and get back to writing this article.

How would you describe the trail of the
relationship? Have things been good for a long
time and then suddenly soured, or has your
relationship been slowly swirling downward?
Try to think what is it about your relationship that
could have made your partner cheat, whether it's
the fact that she is jealous because you are in the
entertainment industry and you constantly interact
with beautiful creatures, or because you have been
together since high school/ college and six years
later, she's feeling like she settled down too soon.
Because there are such things, (only wives will
explain it better to you how they feel their
husbands' manhood feel shrunken... Lol, well that
is a whole different article on its own).

IS YOUR PARTNER COMMITTED TO MAKING
THINGS WORK?

Before you come to a conclusion on what actions
to take about your situation, you have to make
sure your partner is feeling the same way before
you commit to months - or even a year - of hard
work. (I did, commit myself for a year on trying to
make things work but I did not realize my train has
long reached its destination).

This is the most important part of the article. Make
sure your partner is truly sorry. There's a
difference between being sorry and saying sorry.
On that note, make sure your partner is not only
sorry, but also committed to moving forward with
you. And it is important that your partner
recognizes your feelings. She may be sorry, but
that is different from understanding the pain,
heartache, confusion you are going through, and
having to pay for what other men she thinks are
"dogs" did to her.

I have conducted a brief research, only to learn
that people interpret the gesture of admitting to be
cheating differently. But the honest truth is when a
girl admits she is cheating - it shows she
understands your pain, she is being honest with
you, BUT. There's a 60% percent chance she is over
your relationship and by admitting she is cheating
is a way of BREAKING UP with you. Unlike men,
women usually need reasons to cheat for if she
already cheated on you know that her love for you
is/was gone (that rules out gold-digging of course).

SO GO OUT THERE MAKE THE INFORMED
CHOICE.