A problem we see a lot these days among our youth is sexting.
Sexting is sending naked photos of you to other people or to another person and receiving them from other people.
I want to ask you what you get out of this.
Is there some sort of acceptance you’re looking for?
Are you sending pictures to people that you think are your friends just for a bit of fun?
I am telling you now guys, sending nudes will not achieve anything! What’s it going to do? Make you somewhat sexually hormonal? Give you that feeling of gratification?
Does it make you feel like that part of you that was always empty is now full?
Guys, I cannot stress to you enough how important it is to keep your body to yourself! You may think there is no harm in sending naked photos, but there is.
There have been many cases where a guy has asked a girl for naked pictures of herself and then they receive that photo that they have wanted.
But then something happens.
Your identity… Where is it now?
Well it’s out there; it’s amongst every guy that needs that really hot photo of you! It’s on Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr and Instagram just to name a few! It’s being sent to other kids sell phones through text message and email… Your identity is gone! Everyone now knows what you look like! It’s no longer private! It’s no longer that special part of you that no one knows about! Your identity has been stolen, all because you sent that one picture to that one guy.
What happens if you can actually trust that one person not to show everybody, you have sent images to him before and they have all been kept to himself, he hasn’t let any slide.
What do you do?
Well I want to tell you now, that one guy your sending them to, he’s wearing a mask, he hasn’t fully revealed himself because he doesn’t want you to know him fully, he wants you to think he’s innocent when really he’s not.
I want to tell you girls, a respectful loving kind hearted guy will not ask for pictures of your revealed body. He’ll ask you to reveal your personality.
You may think those guys that you sent revealing photos to, are trust worthy… I’m telling you now, guys who ask for revealing photos, no matter if they will keep them to themselves or not, they do all want those pictures for dirty things… They want those pictures because they couldn’t care about your personality; they want to be your friend because you’re hot, because you have a perfect body.
Guys like this won’t go after a girl that doesn’t look as good; guys like these strive for a perfect body.
Girls I’m telling you, never trust a guy with revealing images of yourself, they don’t want those pictures because you’re really sweet nice loving and caring, they want those pictures because all they want is your body.
As for the guys… you need to look into a girl’s heart, you need to look at the personality not the looks. Never be embarrassed if the girl you end up dating isn’t the hottest girl in the world, what defines her beauty is her personality. Love her for her personality not her looks guys.
I promise this will lead to a healthy and lasting relationship, you need to have that personality connection otherwise things just don’t work out.
