LESBIAN G-CODE

This is an excerpt about lesbians every day lifestyle. As you know, the lesbian community has a lot of people that's judgmental, close minded, and old fashion. Well that's why I am here, to open someone mind to modern day or reality. However, I do understand that there will be people who agree, disagree, critic, and debate. At the end of the day, I am open to all of the above, it's the key to healthy  improvement...

The lesbian community has ways of identifying the types of lesbians there are. For example, the term "STUD" "is a Male animal such as a stallion that is kept for breeding purposes (freedictionary.com)." However, in the lesbian community the word "STUD" is identified as a dominant female who acts, dresses, or who is the dominant female in a lesbian relationship. Ok now here's the issue that I dislike about this word. Who in the hell made this word up for dominant lesbian female? I do understand that we're dominant and masculine, However, I think that is a degrading word for a female. For one, we are not males, for two we are not held for breeding, and last but not least we are not ANIMALS. Therefore, the word "STUD" needs to be ejected out of the lesbian community.  

Another term that is used in the lesbian community is "FEM", which is an abbreviation for the word Feminine in fact it means "having the qualities or appearance traditionally associated with women, delicacy, and prettiness." Its self explanatory as it relates to the lesbian community. A female that's womanly or women like. Those are the two common terms that is used frequently throughout the lesbian community.

On the other hand, there are other names that you may be familiar with as well, such as "No Labels." This is women who choose not to give themselves a particular label such as stud or fem. And they dress which ever way feels comfortable or which ever way they choose to dress. Now we have "Fem-Aggressive" this is females who dress feminine but can be aggressive. It could be sexually or personally. On another note you have your "Aggressives" also known as "AG'S," some people relate these females to studs but with another name. Personally I like the term AG better, it defines muscular women to a wiser degree. Next you have your "Stems," these women dress which ever way they feel, they may dress like a women one day and a stud the next. They can be very similar to No-Labels. Moving forward to the "Pillow Princesses" and the "Touch me not Studs." Pillow Princesses are females who doesn't eat the box. They lay on their backs and receives the pleasure. At the same time you got your touch me not Studs who are the total opposite. They give the pleasure without receiving it. I guess they're made for one another right? On the next note, I am not sure if Females to Males fit in this category, however, FTM's are Females who are becoming a Male by most to all measures. But off that!

As you can see, there are so many different ways that lesbians are being divided. I do understand that labels can be a form of identification for lesbians, however, I do believe that this is also a form of separation. Look at it this way, the community is making you choose which label best suits you as a lesbian women. For instance, if you to choose to remain mutual by not putting a label on your person, then you'll automatically be called a No-Label. Now you're still be put in a category or being labeled. At the same time the community will tell you to make up your mind, say that you're confused, or you're a dick dike or a sike a dike. These terms are all degrading for a stud or lesbian who's getting dick on the side. Think about it, these are all barrier that makes the community look messy, judgmental, bias and divided. Stud on stud is getting more popular but is being looked at like a disgrace by the lesbian community. There are a lot of Studs who hate to see S4S relationships. Personally I think it pathetic and sad how people in the community can bash, beat, or chastise others just because it's not the norm. But get extremely mad when heterosexual people do the same thing sometimes worst to homosexuals. You all call that a hate crime, but when you do that to each other what do you think its called? Hello a Hate Crime, that's why I say open your minds, think outside of the box and do better. Stop being judgmental within the community. Which we get mad when people outside the community does the same to us. Practice what you preach.  Treat others how you would like to be treated.  You constantly remind straight people not to judge based on sexuality or looks, yet we're the first to judge people based on things that look weird to us. When being a lesbian look weird as hell to the straight community. But we still get mad when they treat us like we are not human and shouldn't have rights. So how do you think it feels to others in the community when we judge them? Some studs be like "Stud on Stud is nasty, degrading, and it shouldn't happen." Turn the tables for a minute. Now when outsiders say the exact same thing about lesbians then you want to cry and say we should be treated equally. Why would they treat us equally if we don't even treat each other in an equal manner. People also think it's okay for two fems to be together just because it look sexy, or the fact that they maybe allowed to join. Now you're thinking just like a man. Most men say shit like " I like feminine women, but I can't stand studs and fagots." Smh wake up, it's bias and a contradiction at the same damn time and you aint even know it.