Chapter 1: Judgement

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People are not always as strong as you think they are. A lot of people make themselves look strong because people are so quick to judge. When it comes down to it, everybody breaks down. Everybody has moments where they just need to fall into somebody's arms and be held while they cry. Breaking down does not make someone weak, it shows that they having feelings. It proves that the things you say CAN hurt. Crying comes with a lot of stereotypes none of which, are known to be true. If a female is seen crying she gets labeled as a drama queen or an attention seeker. Have you ever thought that maybe she needs help? That maybe, she needs someone to talk to and you are sitting there with the audacity to judge her for crying. Maybe she is just waiting for somebody to notice. If males cry they are accused of "not being a real man." Males have just as many emotions as women do, they just do not show them in the same ways. Assuming does not mean you are correct. Along with that, a lot of people need to learn that nobody in this world is perfect. The sooner everyone learns that the less messed up this generation will be. We live in a society where everything is based on judgments. Judgments that are based on society's 'rules.' Who said society is giving us the right idea? Society is making people more insecure than ever so we need to stick together. We need to build each other up not down. We are often given labels more than we are given chances. Labels that ruin lives, and hurt millions of people every day. People judge you based on how your body looks. People often do not consider the reason why you look the way you look. If you are too skinny you just don't eat. Which is not always the case. Once you have become accustomed to your label people use it like it is your name. If you dress a certain way, then you are just assumed to act a certain way. The way you dress does not determine how you act, people determine how people act. You choose how you act and you choose how you dress. So, stop judging people based on things you do not know.

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