I read something that says "don't fall for the nice guy". It says that it would hurt too much if you fell for the "nice guy" because you wouldn't expect that he will break your heart and that makes it more painful. This is what I had to say. Love and pain are partners. They go together. Pain makes love more beautiful, girl. And love would always hurt. Trust me it's completely normal and you should be thankful because it would make you stronger and unbreakable and you would learn to love yourself even harder before anyone else.
Don't fall for the nice guy, they said. Don't fall for the bad boy either if he treats you like shit. Nobody deserves that. If you don't want to feel the pain, then don't love at all! Don't make it about the nice guy. That's all.