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There was a time in everyone's life when they find something out about themselves that is unthinkable to others. For example, some find they are gay,transgender something along those lines, you may just know it for things like transgender and some know they are gay. Others discover it or don't think about it and it hits them. Then there's that part if you. You can't bare it you think it's wrong you think it's a bad thing, but it's the thought of judgement is the reason we avoid it. Trust me I know all to well. I'm bisexual,this is the first time I've come out in the Internet. The only reason I haven't before us fear of judgement. I've felt these emotions for both genders for a long time. I always thought it was a bad thing to think. Others may deal with it a different way but, intill now I've only expressed it for about a year. I've not come out completely. The whole reason I'm writing this is to talk about the judgement people like me get just because I like both Men and Women. The thing I've never understood is why is it such a big deal to other that I'm like this. I don't know about you but I personally don't say when I meet a person, "Hi I'm Emm and I'm bisexual." No I don't do that. I tell them when I can trust them. The reason for this is so people will not judge me for my sexual orientation but for my personality. So just because your bisexual,gay,trans,lesbian or anything you are it doesn't change my personality. It doesn't change me so what if I'm attracted to both genders I still don't see the problem. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!👧