Dose Of Reality

Chapter 9: Helping

What most people do not realize is why people like to help others through their problems. Every person who helps people has their own personal reason. Maybe it is because they have gone through a lot of things and they felt alone during them. This helps them to realize that that is not how they want other people to feel so they start helping people to let them know that they are not alone. If you grow up feeling alone then you end up spending the rest of your life with trust issues. You end up believing that you do not need anybody's help and that you can do it on your own. Which may be true but it is never bad to have somebody to lean on. You may think you can do it on your own until you are alone in your room at night with nobody to talk to crying yourself to sleep. If that happens to you then you need to find somebody because nobody deserves that. I personally have lived through that all and none of you beautiful people deserve that. If you need someone I am here I swear you can message me or whatever I will be here. You may be thinking that I would not understand but I do. I personally think I have a special gift that helps me understand people's thought process and their emotions better than an average person. 

Why do you help people?
I believe that it is not right for anybody to feel like they have nobody to talk to.

Do you have time for your own problems?
Well not always but I do not mind. It is good to get your mind off of things. It also helps realize that you are not the only one that has issues. Also it helps you not be self-centered if you help people other than yourself.

Do you help people because you want to help them? Or because you believe that you need to?
Well both. I love helping and I also believe that I was given a gift that helps me connect to people on more of an emotional level if you will.

Have you ever helped someone who did not ask for your help?
Yes all the time most people do not directly ask for help it is more indirect.

Have you ever helped yourself?
In ways I have. It is a lot harder to help yourself. Helping people has helped me learn ways to help myself.

What do you think would happen to the people you have helped if you had not helped them?
In some cases I think a lot of the people would be in a bad place because I have helped in very serious situations. Others would do just fine on their own and just don't realize it.

Do you think it is an easy thing to help people? Or is it a delicate thing?
I would say helping is not usually easy because for a lot of people it's hard for them to know the right thing to say. It's also hard for people to be able to hear other people's problems without making themselves extremely upset. When I do it it comes naturally to me. In the meantime, it is delicate because it is people's emotions that you are talking about so saying the right thing is important.

Note: I hope you enjoyed the Q & A. I also hope you learned a little bit about me as well.

Inspiration: This chapter was a request by the same gentleman who submitted the questions.

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 Thank you to the kind sir for submitting your questions. I hope you are enjoying the book so far, if you are follow, vote, and comment. Stay Beautiful. Stay Positive. All my love, -Kaitlynn

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