How to tell if a guy likes you more than a friend.

Notice What He Says

1 Notice the way he talks to you. The way he talks to you can say a lot about how he really feels. Here are some things to consider: Note his tone. Does he talk to you in a measured way that shows that he's put a lot of thought into what you think?   Note his eye contact. Does he look you in the eye when he talks to you, or does he look around the room distractedly? Note that he may be afraid of eye contact because he likes you. He could just be shy!     Note if he gets easily interrupted. If he's talking to you, but someone else comes up, does he instantly forget your conversation? If so, what he says to you may not be so important.

    2 Notice what he chooses to say to you. What he talks to you about can be a big indicator of how he really views you. Here are some signs that the things he says mean he wants more from you: If he teases you. If he playfully teases you a lot, this is a great sign that he's flirting and wants you to flirt back!   If he tells you personal information. If he's telling you about his issues with his family, or his anxieties and fears, then he may be wanting to take the relationship to a deeper level.   If he compliments you. If he's always subtly complimenting how smart you are, or if he tells you that you look great when you see him, this is a sign that he really admires who you are.   If he minimizes his bro-ness. If you notice that when he jokes around his guy friends, he tends to burp and curse and be vulgar, but that he makes an effort to be more refined around you, that's a sign that he's really paying attention to what he says.   If he asks about your romantic life. If he's subtly trying to find out if you're going on dates or seeing other guys, then he may want to be the one you have eyes for. Note that if he's constantly trying to set you up with one of his friends, or asks why you don't go out on a date with so-and-so, he may be trying to keep you in the Friend Zone by making sure you're shooting cupid's arrow elsewhere.  

3 Note what he says about other girls. Paying attention to what he says about other girls can tell you if he just wants your advice, or if you're the only girl he's after. If he's always asking your advice about how to win over his latest conquest, this may be a sign that he just sees you as a friend and values your opinion because you're a girl.   However, if he's always a bit negative about any girl he goes on dates with or says things like, "I just can't find the right girl," he may really be saying that he thinks the right girl is you.   If he acts like a player, it may mean one of two things. If he's always talking about his latest conquest, then he may in fact just be a player, and you should protect your heart. However, he may be doing this just to make you jealous. See if he's reallyseeing as many girls as he says he is, or if he's just trying to get a reaction out of you.  

4 Note what he says to you when you're apart. Some guys are just plain shy and are better at showing their feelings online or over the phone. Note the ways he communicates with you through the following methods: The phone. Does he sound nervous when you talk on the phone? This may be a sign that he wants to impress you. Are your conversations long, or does he try to get to the point and get off the phone as quickly as possible?   Email. If he tries very hard to impress you with his wit and correct grammar, then chances are, he's spending a lot of time crafting his words to show you how smart and clever he is.   Text messaging. Does he just text you to say when and where to meet, or does he sometimes text you just because he wants to chat? Does he try to be funny or send emoticons? If he's putting extra effort into his texting, chances are, he wants to put extra effort into your relationship.   Facebook. Does he "like" a lot of your photos and post on your wall often? This may be a sign that he's keeping tabs on you.   Take all of this with a grain of salt. Some guys are just not phone, email, or Facebook people. He may just rather see you in person, and there's nothing wrong with that!