Distance does really matter “)
They say that distance doesn’t matter if you love someone. But for me distance does really matters when it comes to moving on. Love is just a feeling- a magical feeling that all of us could ever feel even just a blink of an eye. They say it is the greatest feeling we could ever experienced. Right. But sometimes love is the reason behind those sadness, loneliness, madness, sleepless nights and crying days. Love is like a drug. If it’s used improperly and incorrectly it might poison a person who’s taking those drugs.
Distance means a space needed by a person who wants to move on. How we could move on if there’s no boundaries between the one who wants to move on and the person whom to be the reason why that someone wants to move on. We know that it’s hard to forget the girl or a man whom to be a stranger to you then suddenly became your world.
Memories are the first real reason why it is hard for us to forget the person. Those random memories that are always play within our mind. Those obstacles we faced and those fights we encountered with that person and still we don’t leave each other. Those butterflies in our tummies. The unbreakable promises and those dreams we used to make when we are still together.
Sometimes why it is hard for us to move on because we still holding to someone’s promise that they will never leave us. People do make promise when they are happy and curse when they are angry. As a matter of fact it is really do okay to cry. Crying is the best way to boost out your feelings. But crying endlessly to the man or lady who seems to break your heart is a stupidity.
I’m not a perfect person. Once I’ve been in loved. I thought it was the greatest feeling on earth but it destroys a half of my life. I became stupid because of the reason that I love that man. I’m the kindest person you will ever meet for the rest of your life. But at the end he left me hanging. When he moves on and I’m not. If he thought that it is okay to me to be leave by well he’s stupid. No one wants to be left by. I hate goodbyes and farewells. I hate those plenty explanation. Those hell reasons and stupid apology. Just go straight to the point. Don’t you ever use smooth and good words for me to feel better because at the end of your speech you will leave me hanging.
So I guess that distance is the only way for me to forget my past. I’m not hurt but I’m not happy. At least I know that I gave my best maybe my best was not just good enough for him to stay. I know his reason is not just a valid one but I understand. There’s no hard feeling. I’m wishing him well. All that I can do is to be happy for him so that his soul and his mind would be in peace. I don’t want to make it hard for him. Well if setting him free and letting him go is all that I can do to help him I’d rather choose to be left hanging than staying him with me.
Because when you love someone you want a best for him. Maybe I’m not that happy today but I know someday I will meet a man who will love me more than I could ever love him.
So maybe distance and a space is all I need to get over him. I’m the only person who would help me to get over and cope with the situation.
That’s how I wanted you to know. It’s hard to let go but it’s harder to be with someone who wants to fly and go away. Maybe his journey means walking without me. I should remember that every person is meant for perfect one. And I guess he is not a man who is perfect match with me.
God has his own plan of making us happy. Just believe and have faith for he creates us to be happy and not to be lonely.
That’s all I hoped you enjoy my article.
- Maela Grace O. Carlos
