What is really the difference between liking a person or loving them or to lust a person?
Well let's start off with the difference of loving someone and liking someone . Us as teenagers don't really know the difference but I think I might. We often say that we love someone do we truly mean it or is it just a code name meaning that you lust that person . Society has changed dragistacally people don't really know the difference of these three terms anymore. People in our mordern age now use the term love and the term like in different ways. When someone uses it we don't really know if they truly mean it or is it just a code name for I like your physical appearance ,that they want to have a relationship with you because of your physical appearance .well to like a person is like having a crush you basically want to have a relationship with that person eventually Like turns to love but sometimes doesn't. We as teenagers say we love our girlfriends/boyfriends,but the truth behind that is that we like them . We don't really know the true meaning of love at this age. At this age it's just puppy love, it's blind love. We don't really know the meaning of the four letter term. Love is a powerful term that has a deep meaning to it you will only find your answer as you grow older but you won't find it same time it basically grows in you. We must stop being naíve to such things we must learn to set out the difference between these three terms.
Chapter one
To like someone
What is it to like some one is it ,a crush or is it a person you don't know you just like them because they have a certain physical feature that you like in them or is it a person you are physically ,emotionally or spiritually attracted to . When you like someone you must not like them because of a physical view but a emotional and spiritual view then later physical attraction . People often go for the physical attraction first then they only look at the emotional and spiritual part of the person. I my self have learnt not to judge people by their physical appearance you might get that ,that person does certain things you don't like,that person doesn't treat you the way you want him to treat you . As they say "Attractive people with dead personalities" it's like when you buy eggs you never know if they rotten or not you have to crack it before you start cooking it then you'll know if it's rotten or not . it's like asking someone out you have to get to know them better before you can take a decision of dating . as a teenager I suggest that you don't use the word love cause you do not know the true meaning and you do not know how to use it and when to use it. We should stick to the term 'like' relationship wise cause some people spiritually beleive that using love is the way to succeed in certain faiths. Like in the Christian faith it states in the bible that "LOVE ONE ANOTHER AS I HAVE LOVED YOU " I also believe In that spiritually and emotionally. When it comes to relationships especially as a teenager do not fool yourself and say that because you don't know the true meaning you need devotion in order to know it right its just puppy love it's not real love.I wish I could tell you the true meaning of love but I can't no one can only GOD can so at this stage of our lives as teenagers becoming adults we need to be careful , considerate and learn not break each other's hearts because we are going through a lot of emotions so the emotions can be triggered by being hurt by a boyfriend or girlfriend or a friend or the person you like did not turn out to be the person you had hope they'd be.
