School, College and sometime after that, the phase
of life when most people are once, twice or some
more times bitten by the love bug. Most of these
people either don't get to be with the person they
loved, or their relationship ends in a breakup.
Everybody thinks how there is nothing worse that
could have happened in life, like they are facing the
worst circumstance there could be in life. Some
stay sad for months, some decide to never love/
trust again, some are unable to come out of this
trauma for years, while some select few even think
of giving up on their life.
Its just love and it was just a relation. Yes, it was
very special and meant a lot to you and you did
nothing wrong, but there's nothing you or anybody
can do to make things right. Love happens to
practically everybody in the world, and the world
being the unfair place that it is, doesn't really allow
us all to be with the ones we love. Let us please
learn to live with it, and let us please get over our
feelings from the past. Love is not just a matter of
feelings, but there is practicality involved in almost
every case. Sometimes the people in love start
acting practical, while sometimes family or the
society is to be blamed, but the important point
again is that being in love doesn't mean that
everybody gets the person they loved. Its
something like saying how everybody might wish to
own a BMW or an Audi, but of course not
everybody can have it.
Love is a very serious and intense feeling.
Just understand that if its not meant to be, its not
meant to be. Then whatever may be the reason for
things not turning out the way you wanted them to
be, it was just not meant to be.
Your love might have been your life, but eventually,
there is a life without that love as well. Its high
time, please get over it.