Have you ever been sitting around listening to music and suddenly all these thoughts just swarm your mind? And the one thought that always captures your attention is "What if..."
We've all had at least one relationship where everything was just perfect. Y'all loved one another, got along great, and both of y'all families approved. You had started planning a giant wedding, deciding on the location for the honeymoon, and how many kids y'all were gonna have. Life was great cuz you knew without a shadow of doubt that y'all were gonna be together forever. But something changes. Y'all start to drift apart more and more until you barely talk to anymore. Or you just get bored of each other and start to argue about the most petty things until one of you decides to end it. At the time, you just accept that it's over and try to think of other things to keep you distracted.
But one day, you hear that one song that reminds you of what used to be and how happy you were."What if..." The most dangerous thought to a person. "What if I hadn't of argues back with them? What if I had e made more of an effort to stay together? What if we were still together now?" Trust me, I've been through this multiple times, so I know what I'm talking about when I say not to dwell in the past. I understand that you still miss that person and you wish things could go back to the way it was. But you sitting around thinking about it isn't gonna get you anywhere but deeper in your feelings. So when that song comes on, skip it. If it's meant for for y'all to get back together, it'll happen. Some kinda way, y'all paths will cross again. I promise. So don't sit around wondering "what if..." Life is too short to sit around thinking about petty things. Get up, dry those beautiful eyes, turn off the Drake music, smile and go live your life to the fullest! 💚💙💚💙
