What is ...... love .. It's that four letter word that we throw around right ? Or maybe it's the word we mean but yet lack to show. Love is that intense feeling, that feeling of deep affection, the feeling of deep romance, and / or sexual feeling to someone or something. Us women have to learn our worth, every guy isn't same. That's when you think, "yeah right", i know it, looking for love in all the wrong places! Thinking you love that man when in reality it's lust, you don't even love yourself ! Constantly looking in the mirror tucking your stomach in your jeans to make yourself look slim, drowning yourself in makeup hiding your natural beauty, wishing you could be someone your not! Laying up in the middle of the night reading this, hell I'm laying here typing it for you, people like me. Crying yourself to sleep at night wondering if he's going to call you in the morning, if he's going to apologize, or just call the quits. When truth is a man will only treat you how he feels about his self! Men have so much anger built up but yet feel the need to hide it all! Baby focus on your goals, in this generation these men are confused and just want your most prize possession in between your legs! You deserve someone who is terrified of losing you, someone who puts you first before anyone! So you pray, pray, pray, pray, and pray; asking god to send you a good man. Then ..........