SUNSHINE

Hi i am Abby and i just want to talk about CONFIDENCE. Most girls my age don't have much confidence because they were bullied and were told that they were not cool or popular because they don't have straight hair or don't have a boyfriend, to be honest i have been bullied about that and i was hurt but i chose to forgive that person and move on. That was in second grade and now that my younger sister Madelyn is in second grade i hope that doesn't happen to her,but if it did happen to her the advice i would give her is,''Don't let them do that to you because if you do, it will keep building up.''that is why my advice is to not bully and if someone is bullying you stand up for yourself and ask them nicely to stop and try to talk to them. Also if you see someone getting bullied try to talk to them and tell them what i am telling you so you can spread the confidence around. By you decreasing the bullying you can spread confidence and make the world a more sunshiny place.

SPARKLE

now that you have your confidence let's work on spreading the sparkle aka CONFIDENCE. to spread the sparkle you have to keep the sparkle.a way to keep the sparkle is don't let little things bring you down,let them bring you up.a way you can let them bring you up is by not haveing a mucky day about them and stay strong by just saying i don't care that is not going to ruin my day.make the best out of the situation.NOW i know we will all go through big problems,its a part of life but the best thing to do about those problems is to talk to someone about those problems because if you ignore them they will go away for a little bit but when they come back it will be worse than they were before and that will make you feel really sad.if you are sad you will spread sad vibes instead of good,confident and happy vibes.i know somethings are personal and you might not want to talk about it but it really helps.in second grade i had gotten off the bus and something had happened at school and i did not want to tell my mom but it was just nagging at me eventual i got rid of it but 10 minutes later i was about to burst into tears so i finally told her and when i did i crying but after i told her i felt so re leaved. i am so glad i told her that.it made me feel fantastic. if this is happening to you just#talk!!!!!

WAYS

just like there are so many different kinds of people,there is also many kinds of ways to stop bullying and stay strong #girl power.One thing you could do to stop bullying is #1 don't be a bully yourself #2 if you see someone being bullied talk to the victim and the person who is bullying.when you are talking to the victim you want to be there for them ask them what they are being bullied about.if they don't want to talk about them just talk to them about positive things and try to teach them how to stand up for themselves and how to be a strong,confident person.when you are talking to the bullies you still have to be nice but ask them why they are bullying them and try to be kind and make them feel happy because they have normally been bullied themselves so they just take it out on other people.so just talk to them,make them feel good.#3 be strong, confident,and don't let a bully get in the way.let people see the good ways you handle stuff like that.#4 if you are ever getting bullied remember this scripture-do not throw away this confident trust in the LORD remember the great reward it brings you -HEBREWS 10:35 and if you're not religious that is fine just if you ever need cheering up remember that.

CONSEQUENCES

i am telling you these ways to prevent bullying but, you may be asking ''WHY'' well the reason is clear, it is mean and it is not what god wants. At most schools you will get in trouble if they catch you bullying someone. I know that in second grade i got in trouble at school because i was hanging out with my friend and she was a cool girl so i decided to be friend as we became friends i noticed that she was a non-nice person and she bullied people, so one day my friend and i got called to the office and it was about us bullying so when i got home my mom had already got a call from the school about that and she was very upset, she took all of my toys away and all i could do in my room was walk around. So if you bully there is consequences  and they aren't fun. Even if you weren't the one bullying you can still get in trouble because they may not be able to trust you.that is why you may not want to hang out with bullies.if they are your friend just try to just tell them to stop. and if they refuse well then just leave them be and try not to hang out with them while they are bullying people or at all.