Nobody really understands what it takes to be in a relationship. It takes time and a lot of communication to make things work. For guys, it takes more then loving somebody because they are the nicest person they know, because they have good looks, or because they are popular. Guys should like a girl for who they are, what their personalities are, and for no matter what they do u will always care for them. For girls, it is the same exact thing, not only those reasons but teenagers getting pregnant at such a young age, guys don't want to deal with that at all. If u want a relationship to work u gotta make sure there is communication between the 2 of u guys and u don't like them because they are hot but for who they are, we all have feelings and we should respect them.