The closet like life, it's different for all of us. For the most part, it's pain agony, angst, it's dark, lonely and scary finding the way out. It's hard finding someone to pull you out. It's hard but once your out, the weight is lifted off your shoulders. You can finally breath, and yeah sometimes you still lose your sight but mainly it's happiness when the sun comes up and the door opens to the endless possibilities that were once hidden behind that door.