how to be a girly girl

Behaving Like a Girly Girl

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Don't act stupid. There's a stereotype out there that girly girls need to be ditzy and airheaded, but this is not at all true. There is nothing feminine about intentionally acting dumb, so don't enforce this terrible stereotype!If the guys you like seem to only be interested in ditzy girls, they are not good relationship material. Look for someone who appreciates your intelligence instead.(cause girl they ain't worthy of you if they want you to act dumb)

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Be kind and nurturing. Traits often associated with femininity include kindness, honesty, compassion, and openness. Embrace this by always being nice to everyone, helping others, and sharing your emotions(I have met girly girls that are mean but dont change).Don't lie or spread gossip. This is not nice and it will make people think badly of you.You can be honest without being cruel or blunt. Always try to put a positive spin on things.Keep in mind that there are some potentially negative aspects to being nice all of the time. Because we live in a male-dominated world, feminine traits like kindness and compassion are often undervalued. If you want to be successful, you may need to be aggressive and competitive at times.

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Have high energy. It may be hard to be perky and energetic all the time, but it helps if you always try to at least match the energy level of the people you are talking to. If you have a lower energy level than the people around you, you will come off as dull, boring, and not particularly girly.Even if you are not enjoying a conversation, always maintain eye contact and be polite.(im dying reading this im so bored)

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Practice good posture. A girly girl is always poised and graceful, so work on your posture if need be. Good posture will make you look feminine and super confident.Always keep your shoulders down and back and your head up, whether you're sitting, walking, or standing still.When seated, make sure to keep your legs together. The most feminine way to sit is with your ankles crossed and your knees together. You can also cross one leg over the other, although this may be bad for your back.Project confidence by walking slowly and deliberately and keeping your hands in a relaxed position by your sides.(this is not for me)

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Use your manners. Girly girls are polite, so brush up on your etiquette if need be. The right manners will depend on your situation, but in general, follow these rules:Thank people for doing something kind.Say hello to people and respond when someone asks how you are.Look people in the eye when talking.Apologize if you bump into someone.Avoid making noise that may disturb others.(im dead)

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Have fun with the girls(you dont need friends to be girly). The best part about being a girly girl is getting to enjoy girly activities with your girlfriends. Consider things like going to the spa, going dancing, or staying home to give each other makeovers( I wish there was another editor). Whatever you do together, embrace this time with your friends!If you don't already have a group of girlfriends, get out there and meet some new people. You can try joining clubs if you have trouble meeting people.

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Be graceful. Girly girls should be ladylike and graceful at all times, so try to avoid being clumsy and awkward.True girly girls should appear like they're floating on clouds(but your not), with graceful and fluid actions. Work on your posture; put your shoulders back, keep your back straight, and put your chin up(and feel like your gonna die because thats how I would feel). Think of yourself as a ballerina, graceful and light on her feet. Don't act like you have too much swagger or swing your hips too much( your not a song person). This can look as if you're trying too hard. Don't swing your arms either, try to keep them by your side (but don't be stiff).Don't slouch when you're sitting in a chair—press up against the back of the chair and plant your feet firmly on the floor. Avoid folding your arms. It gives off a "get lost" vibe, which is the last thing you want!Being graceful doesn't mean you have to hate sports and walk on tiptoe. It's about being aware of your body, being in control, and expressing confidence through your actions.