Getting Into the Cookie Jar (ch. 1)

No, this isn't a guide telling you that if you follow these steps, you'll become the wet dream of all the girls in your school or at your workplace.

And no, I'm not giving you a fool proof top secret method on how to "get laid", but this is still an effective guide on how to talk to women, "charm" women and more.

CHAPTER ONE

THE APPROACH

You see a girl (or woman) and you believe she is attractive. you want to talk her, but let's face it: When meeting a woman, the hardest hurdle to overcome is to know how to approach her. The problem is that most guys don't put any thought into this until they are face-to-face with a woman they'd like to talk to, and they find themselves frozen and unable to come up with anything to say. This is because (especially if you're with your buddies) you get adrenaline and you decide to talk to her. Think before you act.

Now you have to think of something to say. But what? What should you talk about? Politics? Maybe if you're at a military ball, but what if you're at the mall or at a casual place that calls for a casual conversation? If you're in a bar or club, one of the easiest ways to start talking to a woman is to simply raise your glass to hers and say: "Cheers!" It's simple, nonthreatening, polite, and paves the way for future conversation. It's a great primer to get things going, because the next time you see her it's like you're old friends. Try it out.

If you are somewhere like a mall, I don't recommend a topic of having children, or sex as soon as you walk up to a girl, unless you think that'll get her dripping wet at the sound of the word "babies" (which will probably never happen).

Something more appropriate like school work and how much you hate it might help (if you're still in school) or how much you hate the most annoying co-worker in your workplace (if you have a job). Wherever you are, you're sure to find something really unusual that's discussion-worthy. You may observe a person wearing outrageous clothing, somebody acting inappropriately, a fight, etc. Use whatever is happening around you for the conversation, especially if she shows some sort of reaction to it. When you finally initiate a good conversation with her, make sure to maintain eye contact. Females like this because it displays confidence in a male and women absolutely LOVE a confident man. Don't stare a hole into her eyeballs, that's a turn off, but just look into her eyes as you would look into a camera when someone is taking a photo of you.

First chapter of many. The amount of reads decide how fast I publish the next one

Chapter two: "The Date" is coming soon!