Hey guys,I know this isn't probably the usual sort of thing you read I wanted to share my opinion on bullying,any type I think it's just wrong! To me, anger is filled with emotions. They can sometimes get to heavy and pile up on us! Anger is different for every single person. We all have feelings. Our thoughts and feelings are very important to us,right? In a lot of cases teenagers get a lot angrier or moody. This is because there hormones are developing. They all have different ways of showing that they're angry. Some may take it out on others,a few may tend to keep it in.
Bullying is a big issue for all teenagers. There are different cases for different people. The effects on bullying can lead to feeling down,unwanted,unworthy,useless,worthless,these are all more emotions. The internet now seems to be an huge problem! Within the social networks "cyber bullying" can affect those teenagers greatly! I've seen it happen, I bet you have too? We have all witnessed some kind of harrasment. It is really unessacary.Because of it a lot of teenagers or even young asults feel there is no point of living if you are going to be a cause for concern. It may not be everyone who is causing the tension,but words hurt,one abusive thing said or done by one person can be extremely offensive to a lot of people. Online ore anywhere, it's still bullying!
Try and put yourself in a position where, you are the one going home everyday trying your best to stay strongest you can and the problem just keeps getting bigger and bigger! The advice given is to talk to someone bcause,someone out there care. A lot of teenagers feel it's wrong to do so becaus they may feel "it's my problem not there's why would they care anyway?" kind of thing.
It a good few cases it can lead to self-harm. Self-harm can be a way of coping with problems. It may help you express feelings you can't put into words,distract you from life or release emotional pain. Afterwards you probably feel better-well, at least for a little while. But then the painful feelings return and you feel the urge to hurt yourself agai. The problem is that the relief that comes from self-harming does not last very long. It's like slapping on a brand-aid when what you really need are stiches. It may temporarily stop the bleeding but it doesn't fix the underlying injury. It can also create its own problems. Ultimatlely, the secrecy and guilt affects your relationships with your friends,family members and the way that you feel about yourself. It can make you feel even more lonely,wothless and trapped.
Sometimes this all gets to much and attempted suicide by troubled teenagers is something that happens every year. Nearly every troubled teenager has suicidal thoughts at some stage. And teens who take it further in an attempt to actually kill themselves,are also crying out for help. Even though they might feel like they want to die,at the same time many of them are happy when they discover that there are peolple who want to help them overcome their issues.
Deppression affects a persons thoughts in such a way that the person doesn't see when a problem can be overcome. It's as if the depression puts a filter on the persons thinking that disorts things. That's why deppressed people don't realize that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem in the same way that other people do. A teen with depression may feel like there's no other way out of problems,no other way to communicate a desperate unhappiness.
A lot of teenagers get abuse on the social network "ask.fm" this is a huge problem. People get bullied and judged on it. Violent language is used and lives have been taken because of it! It has become a big issue.
This is just a little summary of what I think about bullying and what it's doing to some people out there. I believe that all teenagers should be treated the same! We are all some one, and you are special,you are unique,you are loved so go ahead and show the world who you are!
